Is it good that my crush got jealous?

[Anonymous]

Mutual crush; we’re stuck in this situation where it’s clear we both like each other but he’s not asking me out and I’m too shy to ask him out too :(

Today was my birthday, he left me some chocolate but nothing too personal or remotely risky.

This other guy who likes me gave me a book, some chocolate, and a cute note. When my crush found out about his gift, he tried to hide it but made an ironic comment out of jealousy.

What does this mean? Is this good and how should I go about it?

[Anonymous]

I was in the same situation. Honestly, if that guy doesn't have the balls to ask you out, you are losing your time. Lost six years of my life waiting on him to ask me out, and I waited because I felt bad for him and he always got jealous when I was having a good time with other guys.

So, it's not actually good that your crush is jealous. Like, don't make him jealous just because he will get a reaction of it. If he's jealous of something that you didn't do on purpose, that's fine.

And in all seriousness, you can decide on how much time he'll have to ask you out. Give him like a month. If he doesn't do anything, then throw him away.

[Anonymous]

A crush is just a crush. Both of you are single. Don't worry about it.

[Romulus8817]

You should make a decision as to which guy you want to date and make sure you aren't toying with either one's emotions, as that's a very cruel thing to do.

Please note that I'm not accusing you of doing so, but one of the guys might feel like you are.

[spartan55]

What do you mean, he tried to hide and made an ironic comment?

[Stoner710]

It means he wants to be with you but to cowardly to ask you out