Guys! Do you get Jealous if your crush hangs with guys?

[Anonymous]

I really like this guy in my class and I have been giving him all the clues that I like him, but he hasn't acted on them. So I have kinda given up hope and I recently made really good friends with the guy I sit next to(just friends-hes crushing on another girl). So me and my guy friend are usually joking and laughing and I've noticed my crush is always staring at us and talking to my guy friend(they know each other) way more than usual(he calls him over to talk about stuff). He also has been hanging around us. So if you saw your crush hanging out with another guy, and they took breaks together and she drove him home after school, would you be jealous? Even if you knew the guy friend was crushing on another girl in the class? Would it make you pursue her more aggressively or back off? Is he being more aggressive/ acting weird because I stopped showing as much interest as I usually do? Any advice is greatly appreciated!

[Anonymous]

I'd definitely be jealous if the girl I liked was talking with this one dude all the time. I'd assume that they're flirting (talking and laughing usually is when two people are opposite genders) and try to persuade myself she isn't into me. It's a bad idea to do that, because if he ever liked you, you gave him mixed signals and you could've just ruined it. (Emphasis on could've.)

[quantumdefender]

I have seen this behavior several times, and I come to the conclusion that the woman is NOT interested in me, but she is just a shameless flirt who messes with every guy for ANY attention,

so I ignore them and move on.

if a woman has a crush on me...what is she doin flirting with anyone else...mixed signals do NOT turn me on.

[Asker]

thank you for your honesty! I'm not all over him or anything we just joke a lot and were good friends. I'll try to tone it down and pay more attention to my crush =]

[Anonymous]

if its my buddy and he said nothing was going on I would be fine with it if I dint know him I may get jealous but confused and wonder if she flirts with every guy or I'm second choice etc

[Anonymous]

he would only be jealous if he liked you