I heard a girl say women are very judgy more than men about who their partner will be. She mentioned a study that showed women on a dating site were less open to various race men than me were open to women.
I can tell you now I seem nice outside (not online lol) but inside I quantify males around mes worth a lot. I know none who are good enough for me and thats on many levels. I am not even as judgmental about appearance. I am actually more judgy about inner things and actions of a man.
I think when women settle for worthless males they know those males are pieces of shit they just gaslight themselves into thinking the payoff of "love" is worth taking a chance on said piece of shit. I know i did that long ago when i was young and dumber and i am not immune to such thought processes again. I try not to let my wishes get the best of me now and thus not to gaslight myself. Just keep reminding myself what makes said male a piece of worthless shit. And i dont mean him as a human i mean his worth AS A POTENTIAL MAN to me or any woman for that matter.
I can tell you now I seem nice outside (not online lol) but inside I quantify males around mes worth a lot. I know none who are good enough for me and thats on many levels. I am not even as judgmental about appearance. I am actually more judgy about inner things and actions of a man.
I think when women settle for worthless males they know those males are pieces of shit they just gaslight themselves into thinking the payoff of "love" is worth taking a chance on said piece of shit. I know i did that long ago when i was young and dumber and i am not immune to such thought processes again. I try not to let my wishes get the best of me now and thus not to gaslight myself. Just keep reminding myself what makes said male a piece of worthless shit. And i dont mean him as a human i mean his worth AS A POTENTIAL MAN to me or any woman for that matter.
