Girls do you feel more or less offended when a guy calls you a 'bitch' as opposed to another woman calling you one?

[Still-alive]

If so what difference is there for you?

Yes its worse when a guy calls a girl a bitch then if another woman dies

No they are just as bad no matter which sex called her that

Actually its worse when another woman calls her a bitch

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+1 y

Most voting B but still a lot voting A here. Interesting

[RolandCuthbert]

It is like the n-word question.

I will never understand African-Americans who approve of being called the n-word by other "Black" people but hate it when other groups use the term.

And it remains the only thing I don't understand about Dave Chappelle. How can he be such a brilliant thoughtful comedian, yet have this weird ass defense of using the n-word constantly in his act?

https://afro.com/open-letter-to-dave-chappelle-about-use-of-n-word/

Dave Chappelle

May I remind you that all groups in America, including Italians, Irish, Jews, Japanese, Chinese, Native Americans, and Mexicans have been victims of racial epithets; yet WE ARE THE ONLY PEOPLE WHO TOLERATE AND EVEN FLAUNT OUR DEGRADATION!

[Lolaaa53553373333]

I don't know I'd feel the same way if like we're shouting at each other, it'd depend on how close I am to the person for it to hurt. If we're talking in like a general way, from experience, it's either strangers I really don't care about, or as I noticed, girls say that another girl is a bitch if they want to I don't know make her look less attractive or something, and guys do it after getting rejected by the girl, both are bad I still feel like it's worse if another girl says it to me in case she already knows me.

[jennifer_bloom]

I find a lot of guys don’t understand the idea of accountability, like if I get angry at a guy for disrespecting me, they will say I’m an angry person who judges others instead of saying that I’m somebody who hates being disrespected. So I do think some guys call you a bitch because you got angry, and do not consider whether your reasons for getting angry are valid or not.

[Still-alive]

So what if other girls call you one? You feel its less bad?

[jennifer_bloom]

If a girl does it, it’s usually because she’s jealous or judging you for your behaviour, like I had female co workers hate on me when I was new cause I was too dependent on others for information and did not have the confidence to solve my problems, I find girls call you the b word for different reasons, then guys.

[Apple1996]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/5LGEiIL1__s

All women will claim that the word bitch isn't hurtful but there is a reason why this vid is so funny. Obviously cause men are scared saying that word around a woman so to answer your question yes more offensive when coming from a man.

[Still-alive]

lol nice

[petitedollbabee]

I don’t find the word bitch offensive. I’m like yeah, I am a bitch, but only to those who cross my boundaries and deserve it. So congrats you’re right! Lol. The word has lost all meaning from the amount of guys who’ve tried to use it as an insult towards me. I’ve been called bitch by women aswell but same thing applies - if I’m a bitch towards you regardless of your gender, then you’ve obviously done something to make me act that way towards you.

[Still-alive]

Ok but if you see someone calling another person a bitch how do you feel?

[petitedollbabee]

Not my business. I don’t get mixed up in other peoples arguments unless it turns physical.

[Still-alive]

So you just dont see this word holding any weight whatsoever depending on which sex uses it?

And i think I would step in personally but just me

[Hemoglobin]

If we are talking feelings, I’m more likely to be pissed if a man calls me a bitch than if a woman does. This is for an illogical reason though. The reason is that men are pretty much better at everything when compared to women. It feels extremely condescending when a man says it (if he’s trying to be a sexist) because I don’t need people to rub in my face my inferiority.


But again, that’s just logically fallacious. Saying that men calling women “bitch” is worse than women calling women “bitch” is like saying someone with a PhD calling someone “idiot” is worse than me calling someone “idiot.”


My point is that just because the person has superior qualities doesn’t mean they are worse when they do things than if someone with inferior qualities does it.

[dustybiker]

I was called a bitch last night by a male pretending to be a pink. Either or is weightless to me. When they called another decent member a bitch too, then I had a problem with it.

[Still-alive]

Do you think if it really was a girl it would be just as?

[dustybiker]

No. People who knee-jerk react only do so out of emotional unbalance.

[anon1903]

Much less. It's common for guys to be bitter about not getting laid and taking it out on us lmao. But when a woman does it? As bad as slut shaming, bro.

[Still-alive]

What if he gets laid regularly but still calls you that?

[anon1903]

Thats even worse

[Still-alive]

How so? Lol

[anon1903]

While we're on the subject, I've been bitchy a lot of times w men. So it'd make sense if he calls me one.

[anon1903]

It means he gets laid and is egoistic about it

[Still-alive]

Maybe but you’re still kinky so you got a pass w me

[anon1903]

Good

[Still-alive]

Mhmm baby mmm

[Apulu_3]

Um I myself say that I'm a boss b*tch. Anyways if someone calls me names then I don't pay attention as my ears are rubbish proof. Anyways who gives attention to barking dogs. Let them bark. I'm the lion and I will just pass them.

[On_cloud_wine]

I think it’s worst if a man calls a woman a bitch because they’re usually trying to not come across as a bitch, but if you’re a real bitch, it’s hard to hide.

[SnakeBoop]

neither really. the only people who call me a bitch are mostly people on here who didn't enjoy a comment or get told i'm not interested in their nudes.

[grierwrange]

Lol I don’t think I’ve heard any guy call a woman a bitch let alone me. Guys don’t really say that at least the guys I associate with

[Still-alive]

But do you feel if a guy did say it to you its worse than if another woman calls you that?

[BlackTealLazer]

Being called a bitch doesn't get better just because of what gender said it.

[menina]

Voted B. To me they're equally offensive and this word should never be used.

[KellyKOO]

It will be equally offensive for me if used in a negative way

[Lyndsielee666]

Depend on the tone they’re using 🥴

[Still-alive]

But generally is it worse when a guy calls you that? :p

[beebella]

That word doesn't offend me, tbh.

[Still-alive]

So lets say a guy just outright calls you one in public, what do you do?

[beebella]

I'd just laugh it off, honestly.

[Minahh]

If a girl does that she's probably just jealous but guy like that doesn't know how to treat a lady so that offends me more

[Cringe]

Lol only bitches get mad at that

[Nagahime]

I love being called a bitch.

[ChloeStarlight]

I’ve never been called that before

[douride2]

It's the same either way.

[Lillie_xo]

nobody should use it