I feel like society doesn’t care about adults in general. Only children get the care and attention that they need. Adults are expected to be able to handle everything themselves.
Men run the world and reality is that privilege is earned many times through defeating your competitors. If we had to stop and consider another mans "feelings" every time he took an L nothing would get done. Women and Childrem can male decisions based on emotion but part of being a successful man is staying calm under pressure and making your decisions based on facts, tangible truths and the best interests of those who depend on you.
Society isn't the issue. I don't expect society at large to care. The fact is that that even the people who are close to us don't care, just as long a were doing the whole provider/protector role that's expected of us. Go ahead and try to explain how you really feel to your woman. You'll either lose her respect, she'll turn it around and make it her problem, or she'll outright roast and invalidate you.
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Today one of my neighbors committed suicide due to a prolonged quarrel and depression, so I will say no. Divorce is hard for men without losing everything. Women get physically abused by en and everyone goes nuts but most men get mentally abused by women.
Nobody makes any type of excuse for men's feelings... and if you are a white guy your doubly discounted. Man bashing and shaming is pretty much accepted these days..
Caring about your feelings doesn't mean someone has to date you. As long as you're not dying society cares about you. Shame on you for acting like a retard when there are billions of chickens dying and no one gives a fuck about how they feel.
in our society, we seem to think men should not show and have emotions at all, so i am gonna say not so much. men are seen as weak if they do show that kind of emotion. but that needs to all change i think.
Also, it's always like it's men’s fault, a guy’s fault, blah blah blah. Sure there are some toxic men out there but just because a guy has an opinion it has either bad, racist, sexist, etc. Like... Ok but like because I’m a guy some people expect me to be a copy and the pasted person they met before if I am a complex person with good ideas, a rational/intellectual mind, and a unique way to see the world. Like I have been literally been harassed online because I’m a guy and for some weird reason it gave people the fucking authority to be assholes without a reason. Like if I cry I’m a cry baby or if I show emotions most people would say I’m fake. There are so many fucking titles we put on people without a good excuse and we just aren’t fair.
They usually don't. It's either we're seen as over acting or they assume men can just handle it. But when they do, they "care". Meaning they want men to open up so they can take advantage of it.
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I feel like society doesn’t care about adults in general. Only children get the care and attention that they need. Adults are expected to be able to handle everything themselves.
I think he's asking about feelings. AS rule of thumb society definitely does not care about mens feelings, and in my opinion they shouldn't
Why shouldn’t they?
Men run the world and reality is that privilege is earned many times through defeating your competitors. If we had to stop and consider another mans "feelings" every time he took an L nothing would get done. Women and Childrem can male decisions based on emotion but part of being a successful man is staying calm under pressure and making your decisions based on facts, tangible truths and the best interests of those who depend on you.
Society isn't the issue. I don't expect society at large to care. The fact is that that even the people who are close to us don't care, just as long a were doing the whole provider/protector role that's expected of us. Go ahead and try to explain how you really feel to your woman. You'll either lose her respect, she'll turn it around and make it her problem, or she'll outright roast and invalidate you.
Today one of my neighbors committed suicide due to a prolonged quarrel and depression, so I will say no. Divorce is hard for men without losing everything. Women get physically abused by en and everyone goes nuts but most men get mentally abused by women.
I think that society cares about Men's feelings. Absolutely. That is why there is centuries of psych research looking at both men and women
But not as much
And it’s difficult to say something u haven’t experienced
Nobody makes any type of excuse for men's feelings... and if you are a white guy your doubly discounted. Man bashing and shaming is pretty much accepted these days..
Why is every question on here about the victimizing of men and the vilification of women? What is this gender was going on? No normal guys on here?
The fuck did you get that from?
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I get that from here
This question?
If any of us were normal we probably wouldn't be here lol
I see both sexes bit*Hing.
Caring about your feelings doesn't mean someone has to date you. As long as you're not dying society cares about you. Shame on you for acting like a retard when there are billions of chickens dying and no one gives a fuck about how they feel.
no. it's have a job and your life together or fuck off and die. that's life for men.
Have seen it all my life and from older generations.
Guys are expendable and rarely anybody cares for one.
in our society, we seem to think men should not show and have emotions at all, so i am gonna say not so much. men are seen as weak if they do show that kind of emotion. but that needs to all change i think.
Society doesn't typically care for one's well-being, but concern itself with taboos and negative traits of people
Nope. I am part of this since I was told as a 4 year old to not show feelings or I am a weak bitch or an execution-worth faggot by my dad.
Also, it's always like it's men’s fault, a guy’s fault, blah blah blah. Sure there are some toxic men out there but just because a guy has an opinion it has either bad, racist, sexist, etc. Like... Ok but like because I’m a guy some people expect me to be a copy and the pasted person they met before if I am a complex person with good ideas, a rational/intellectual mind, and a unique way to see the world. Like I have been literally been harassed online because I’m a guy and for some weird reason it gave people the fucking authority to be assholes without a reason. Like if I cry I’m a cry baby or if I show emotions most people would say I’m fake. There are so many fucking titles we put on people without a good excuse and we just aren’t fair.
They usually don't. It's either we're seen as over acting or they assume men can just handle it. But when they do, they "care". Meaning they want men to open up so they can take advantage of it.
Stay strong brother. Castles and pyramids aren't built by one man.
Based on the way Society treats men it's pretty clear that nobody cares about the way men feel or the unfair treatment they often receive
And that's why men have the highest suicide rates and most prone to do something extremely violent. All the surpressed emotions.
Society couldn't give 2 shits about ANYONE'S feelings.
More and more. That stigma that men have no feelings is slowing dying.
Nobody cares about anyone's feelings except their own and maybe a few loved ones.
Majority of society is men…but I’d say this is a side effect of toxic masculinity ironically.