How do I stop hurting?

[Anonymous]

I was never with this guy but he was my friend and I started to like him and became weird with him. He started ghosting me. But we live right next to each other and go to school together (can't change either things) I literally can hear his voice in my apartment and it hurts me. I know it's fine he doesn't like me, but it's been over a year, and I am still hurt when I hear him or see him. We are friends with some of the same people too.

[one1wild00]

Find yourself a boyfriend.

[Asker]

lol joke is I have one

[one1wild00]

Transfer your negative energy into positive energy towards him. focus on him.

[Asker]

we almost broke up during this time bc I moved to a new city long distance is hard and he was talking to his ex right before I left and didn't tell me.

[Asker]

thank you that is helpful actually and a good idea

[one1wild00]

Hope it helps and your welcome.

[Dkc123]

How weird?

[Asker]

like I think it was obvious I was starting to catch feelings. I would talk to him till like 3am and say goodnight and good morning etc. Told him I dont like him calling me bro lol. I'm high high high high high high key embarrassed

[Asker]

but obv he was talking to me till 3 am too lol

[Dkc123]

May be he doesn't feel the same.. and don't want you to give an wrong idea..!

[Asker]

yes I get that but we were good friends and he completely ghosted me