Should I be concerned that my boyfriend likes selfies of a 14 year old on instagram? (Page 2)

[slatyb]

No, you shouldn't.

[Asker]

Not a big deal?

[slatyb]

No, it's not. Most 14-year-old women are sexually mature. It's normal for adults to find some of them attractive. It wasn't so long ago that young women "came out" at 15, ready to be courted and married.

I don't think teens should be allowed to marry before 18 under any circumstances, and it's not normal for adult men to make advances to women in their teens.

I'm happily married, but I still enjoy seeing images of attractive women, or seeing other attractive women when I'm out somewhere. My wife and I tell each other when we see someone attractive, male or female.

[Asker]

So in short, I should not bring it up to him?

[slatyb]

It's a bit odd that it's someone known to him, but she's posting them, so presumably she wants the likes. I wouldn't worry about it.

[WhiteBoyChill]

@Exterminatore The left’s philosophy of sexualizing young children….. how lovely

[Exterminatore]

@white

Good point

[Fuentes]

@slatyb 14 year olds are not "WOMEN" They're young girls dummy and compared to your age their freaking babies!

[slatyb]

@Fuentes Most 14-year-olds are sexually mature. It's normal for adults to find some teens attractive. I also said "It's not normal for adult men to make advances to women in their teens." Some teens are adults.

Until about twenty years ago, the fashion industry employed some 14-year-olds to model clothes intended for adult women.

[Fuentes]

A 14 year old is a child

[slatyb]

@Fuentes Legally yes. So what? I'm not advocating that adults should be allowed to date 14-year-olds. The minimum age for marriage should be 18, no exceptions. Mostly the age of consent should also be 18, with close-in-age exceptions.

by the way, it's the red states that have the most marriages between teens and adults.

[Anonymous]

Not just you; but his friend too.

[Asker]

A cause for a break up?

[Opinion Owner]

I would. Do you really want to date a pedophile?

[2facedfa1ry]

yea you should

[RobEurope]

Not unless he does this obsessivly.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Terrible...

[Asker]

Valid reason for breaking up?

[Rockstarrrrr]

I think so yeah...

[Asker]

Do you think I should mention to him how it made me upset?

[Rockstarrrrr]

No... I think you should ask him what's up with that in a passive aggressive way

[Asker]

Why is it better to be passive aggressive?

[Rockstarrrrr]

Half you f**kin disgust me / half I shouldn't care that much about someone like you

[Asker]

I should tell him that?

[Rockstarrrrr]

With your attitude yes

[Anonymous]

Yes, and so should her father.

[LigmaBallsack]

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[Fuentes]

Red flag he's a Pedo