Take the attitude that they have to chase you. The ones that give up are too lazy, or not that interested. Don't make it easy to get your attention. And never go after them.
@marianna546 big suggestion before jumping in any relationship learn to have relationship with yourself otherwise its gonna be car wreck and not enjoyable at all, then you will end up hating guys for it. Self respect will mostly gonnna be based on you deciding to do whats good for you, you choosing to take care for you cus others won't if you dont do it
@marianna546 thats pretty good fire you got there. I can see his more on narcissistic side they have tendency to mess other people minds where others think they are the problem. To make it easier look at it this way, you gave him a chance, you put in effort to make it work (convincing part) and in return he didn't match that level of effort and energy, then its time for you to make new direction in life. It helps to give people like 2-3 shots at things if they dont show effort, it will feel shitty if you keep putting effort and other side doesn't. It can explain the feeling of "begging"
Well i know i am attractive i just wanted to give him a chance even though I KNEW he didn't deserve a chance because he didn't even remember he sent me dick pics which prove he has been doing so with many other girls.
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Take the attitude that they have to chase you. The ones that give up are too lazy, or not that interested. Don't make it easy to get your attention. And never go after them.
As you get older you’ll start to have more confidence and you shouldn’t change anything about yourself
I think everyone has a bit of insecurity in them.. I'm not sure how to fix it as i haven't fixed my own yet
You are kinda mean but I’m aware that meaner people are usually more honest and have more integrity than the average person
If u have to beg it won't work out. Understanding is basic foundation of relationships.
Being selfish doesn't mean being mean it s a form of self care and stop begging from douches for god sakes
Just be you and now that ur more capable of doing it all by yourself and succeeding
What's wrong with people from Alabama haha
Albania🙄😂
Don't beg for anything, stand up for yourself
Heheheh i knowww i blocked that loser... he for real is such a child
You lack confidence because you haven't talked to a lot of guys. When you will, you'll understand that you're enough.
If you beg people then you have no value, tip give yourself some value
You don't have self respect
Yep i agree its not confidence its lack of self respect that is the issue for her behaviour.
@Honesttguy yes i know... :(
@marianna546 big suggestion before jumping in any relationship learn to have relationship with yourself otherwise its gonna be car wreck and not enjoyable at all, then you will end up hating guys for it.
Self respect will mostly gonnna be based on you deciding to do whats good for you, you choosing to take care for you cus others won't if you dont do it
@Honesttguy well actually i have self respect just this obsesseion i had with this guy was not okayyyyyyy i mean why did i try to convince him?
@marianna546 thats pretty good fire you got there. I can see his more on narcissistic side they have tendency to mess other people minds where others think they are the problem.
To make it easier look at it this way, you gave him a chance, you put in effort to make it work (convincing part) and in return he didn't match that level of effort and energy, then its time for you to make new direction in life. It helps to give people like 2-3 shots at things if they dont show effort, it will feel shitty if you keep putting effort and other side doesn't. It can explain the feeling of "begging"
@Honesttguy yeah everything you just said is spot on!
I seem to have that as well. I always feel like it's either begging or chasing them away.
Dump this guy. He’s not worth it.
Its the one guy you’re begging hey?
Because you have heart of gold 😘
date an American guy instead 🤷♂️😂
I wish I could answer this
don't beg you're hot
you are right.
Stand up for yourself.
Know you're hot stuff.
Know your worth, and live it.
Well i know i am attractive i just wanted to give him a chance even though I KNEW he didn't deserve a chance because he didn't even remember he sent me dick pics which prove he has been doing so with many other girls.
he is a dirty minded idiot.
I mean just cause someone sends dick pics doesn't mean they have a dirty mind.
Some girls like dick pics and there's nothing wrong with that.
The key is, guys need to ask before sending dick pics and if he didn't, then that's was shitty.
Try to relax
Just follow your heart
Not sure. Only you can answer that.