THINK he was on a dating app DURING OUR DATE?

[Anonymous]

Meth him on a dating app ----On my 4th date with this guy who said he really liked me and wanted to get into a relationship with me, he is promiscious while single however never cheated in a relationship - longest being 18 months. As I was walking back from the toilets (located behind him so walking back to the table behind him) I THINK I saw him on a dating app/Tinder swiping, I can't say for sure however I saw him swiping, I got quite close and asked if he wanted another drink, his head swung around and his face looked a little shocked and he put his phone down. I didn't say anything as I didn't see his phone, however it playing on my mind, he also has 3 phones? 1 for work, 1 for personal use and 1 for game apps? He messaged me today to ask if I want to get exclusive with him as he really likes me. Something just feels 'off' though. What would you do?

I have questioned the 3 phones and he assures me 1 is for gaming... hmmmm I dunno... is this a thing? surley you can use your normal phone.

[DaveJord]

Yeah I am right there with you... I get the work phone and personal phone... but the third phone thing is weird... but yes it can be a thing. There are online games where people want to run multiple accounts or profiles and you can not do it from the same phone, they want to use secondary account to support primary accounts... but these games don't want people running multiple accounts. They want you using the one account and spending maximum money, but when you open up a brand new account on a different phone you get access to cheaper beginner bonus packs that you can buy and then give to your other account. Or you can create a account to farm resources all the time and get all the boosters to produce more food, then you can move it or trade it in game to you primary account. Once you start reaching higher levels in the game you don't get the same cheaper bonus packs, so they use a second phone to keep one account at a lower level on purpose so they can buy cheaper stuff and give to the their other account while in game.

Sounds confusing to you because you are not lame, in the way that this would seem reasonable to you.

So yes, its a gamer thing and I have fallen into the life style for a year myself by accident, just back slide into because i fell into a depressed state... but people who do this type of thing spend hours gaming a day and usually spend all types of money on doing it. So it is a Red Flag to me knowing how easy it to get looped into that type of thing.

But his behavior is suspicious to me as well, and if its bothering you then I would just be honest with him about it and move on.

[Guy13]

How did it go with Mr. Meth from dating site? Should have known... Tinder