Should I move on?

[Anonymous]

I asked my boyfriend if his ex showed up naked at his door in a raincoat would he have sex with her? (Don’t ask how we lead to this topic) and he said yes instantly. I was shocked by his answer and got quiet. After that he claimed depending on circumstances he would such as him being tired and single after work. He told me do not ask him questions I am not ready for the answer for. It makes me realize where I stand and what do I really mean to him.

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He does talk about his ex’s a lot but more so the trauma they cause. I don’t feel like he really loves me.

[nitsuj86]

Eh, might have just been trolling you a bit. Trying to prove a point to how stupid of a question it is. Might have even thought that he was being funny. Also, looked like he said if he was single, so not like he was saying he would cheat on you.

Maybe a bit more honest than he should have been. But knowing women, sounds like he was annoyed with you and the question, so he was trying to teach you a lesson.

[boggboss]

He is right don't ask questions u are not ready for the answers for he made it clear if his ex came back he would drop u so now u need to decide what u want

[WhitneySnow]

It actually is important how you led to this topic

[Asker]

We were talking about a guy who come to my door and spilt his feelings out for me and How it was weird and then I said how My actually ex had an ex come to his door naked in a rain coat and he wasn’t interested. Just how people come to your door wanting you basically.

[Asker]

It was funny then I was like would you take an ex back at your door.

[WhitneySnow]

Ngl if that was my boyfriend his answer would really bother me. Should you dump him for it? I’m not sure. Has he done anything else that really bothers you?

[WhitneySnow]

Then I would break up with him. If he really loved you he wouldn’t do it with his ex even if she was naked in a raincoat.

[Wise4myage]

You should have dumped him immediately.

[LazerBean]

Clearly.