I went on a date with this guy who’s 8 years older than me, it went well and I stayed at his etc.. got caught up in the moment. We chatted for hours and had breakfast, we have loads of shared interests. I messaged him saying thank you, and if he’s free sometime next week, he said he’s got his family staying but he’s potentially free the week after. I don’t like the connotations of the word potentially.. is he just not interested enough?
Sounds like it to be honest, Family shouldn't and wouldn't be a factor to not being able to see you if he was so interested in seeing you!
Not to be blunt but have you considered he might just have you on the side and this family might be his legit partner and family? How long have you know this man for?
My personal perspective is if someone said this to me then i wouldn't feel like they're interested enough to chase them so much! Know you're worth and move on if it feels like you should, Don't chase people who aren't going to chase you as much!
If you wish too stick around for the show i guess only time will tell.
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I agree that "potentially" makes it sound like he's not very interested, but I guess it's possible that he just didn't choose his words carefully. If I was interested, I would make that clear, even if I couldn't commit to a specific date yet, by saying something like "I'd like to meet again, but I really can't this week because I have family visiting. I'll check with you after that and we can set something up."
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