Never been catcalled before. Does that mean I’m unattractive?

[thatshydork]

I’ve never been cat called before, just approached online either by matches on tinder or creepy guys on Instagram, but a lot of my friends have. Now, I’m not skinny but I’m not fat either. I’m curvy and I walk quickly. I also have an rbf and I’m around 5’10”. I also usually only go places with at least one other person. Have I never been catcalled because I’m ugly or do I just intimidate people?

[MCheetah]

Most women have never been catcalled before. That's not a thing real men do, contrary to what feminists would have you believe. You have never been on a date though BECAUSE you "usually only go places with at least one other person." If that IS you in the swimming pool thumbnail (which you should really change, by the way), then I'd say you are not ugly and do not have RBF. But you should think about smiling more, perhaps.

Also, what makes you "that shy dork" if you're implying you're as strong as She Hulk or Wonder Woman? Nothing "shy" about that pool pic or the way you imply how extremely good looking your body is. I don't get it, miss.

[thatshydork]

Shy and confident aren’t mutually exclusive. Also, I never implied that I’m as strong as the She Hulk or Wonder Woman.

[MCheetah]

Shy and confident are literally total opposites of each other. Timid, insecure, modest are the other ends of brave, cocky, and prideful.

[thatshydork]

Shy doesn’t mean insecure, it just means you’re reserved. Being shy doesn’t mean you can’t be confident too.

[wheist9095]

You're not ugly, so it could be the RBF doing its work making you slightly intimidating and unapproachable. It could also be that you're not alone when you go out so you don't look like an easy target. Honestly, cat calling is trash and it's a good thing that you haven't been cat called.

[WhitneySnow]

Guys who catcall are assholes. Be glad you haven’t.

[JDavid25]

Nah, most guys don't catcall.. It's specific guys and specific areas that cat call.. It's not an actual wide spread problem.. It's just that the women who get car called don't wanna act address the guys who are doing.. But, no you probably look fine.. You're tall and you're face looks normally cute, and you sound like the average healthy thick girl not too far, not skinny..

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. If that’s you I’m looking at in the pic then I’d say you’re very pretty. Pretty in the way that you don’t need makeup, that is a plus. But I know you look that much more beautiful w a little makeup on. Women like that are gorgeous. The ones who look beautiful w out the makeup, but use it to highlight their features rather than looking like a circus clown.

[Chazmatazz269]

According to the antis, catcalling isn’t about attractiveness, it’s about intimidation and lack of respect. By that logic, not being catcalled means you’re well respected. Congrats!!!

[spartan55]

You act disappointed that you haven't ever been catcalled... very weird.

"I'm curvy and walk quickly" 😂😂 what does that have to do with anything?

[thatshydork]

Walking quickly meaning I always look like I’ve got places to be. Curvy as in I’m not skinny but not fat either so I’m curvy.

[TheMajesticKing777]

It can also be neither and its cause you just never got catcalled before, it's all based on timing, who, when and where

[syncheart]

I think it depends on where you go. Not all men catcall.

[chicosuave]

Most men are taught not to do that. So you have seen an improved society.

[Anonymous]

An “rbf”? Really big face? What the fuck are you saying? Type goddamnit.

[thatshydork]

Rbf: resting bitch face. Look it up.

[MCheetah]

@Agagagagaga
RBF is a pretty common expression nowadays. A girl who unintentionally looks mean or angry, all the time.

[Opinion Owner]

Why should I have to look up your stupid ass acronyms? You could always use your fat sausage fingers to actually type it out. 🤷‍♂️ For a generation that texts all the goddamn time you’re piss poor at communication.

[thatshydork]

Ok wow, that was extremely rude. Someone’s angry. Also, I do not have sausage fingers.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m rude because I ask a question but you’re the one who is telling others to look up some stupid ass expression because you’re too lazy to type “resting bitch face.” Whew! That was tough! I better drink some Gatorade, that was a real workout.

[thatshydork]

“I’m rude because I ask a question but you’re the one who’s telling others to look up some stupid ass expression because you’re too lazy to type ‘resting bitch face.’ Whew! That was tough! Better drink some Gatorade, that was a real work out!’ First of all, you were being rude way before I so kindly answered your question. I didn’t have to do that, but I did. You could’ve just as easily googled ‘what does rbf mean’, but no, you decided to be a rude asshole who body shames a 19 year old who never did anything to you except call your ass out when you accused me of being lazy and rude, but actually, you’re the lazy and rude one here. Second, your approach was extremely rude. Who the Hell do you know that would respond well to ‘what the fuck are you saying? Type goddamnit’ because no one I know would respond kindly to that and I’m 100% sure no one you know would either. Third, to call me lazy when you’re the one who refused to Google ‘what does rbf mean’ or ‘the definition of rbf’ is hypocritical.

[Opinion Owner]

Use English and avoid the acronyms if you expect people to know what the fuck you’re talking about. For a generation that texts constantly you’re absolutely shitty at communication.

[thatshydork]

Well people usually know what rbf means or at least have enough of an independent thought process to look it up for themselves, so next time, if you don’t know what an acronym means, I strongly suggest that you don’t be extremely rude and swear at them and instead, use a kinder, more desirable response like ‘could you explain what rbf means?’ instead of ‘an “rbf”? Really big face? What the fuck are you saying? Type goddamnit.’ The way one approaches is everything. People aren’t going to respond well to someone cursing at them and being rude to them. You want people to treat you with respect, you have to show it first.

[RuthlessAggression]

Wait a minute, so, girls actually WANT to be catcalled?

WHAT IN THE HOLY FUCK

[Sparkie460]

I think you are very attractive if that's your picture in the profile

[Anonymous]

Used to be a cat call was a great compliment to a woman. I think today it means they're poking fun of you. Really sad

[Guy13]

What is that, Catfished?

[dudeinohio]

Not necessarily

[Iron_Man]

Yes….

[Anonymous]

Probably.

[Bigjake1019]

Your gorgeous!