Matched with a guy, he lives a bit further away from mine so meeting up is a bit difficult but we've had great convo's and some sexting here and there, he asks for fit checks and pics, ask if I'm gonna get home safe if I'm out, apologizes if he takes too long to text back (max 2 hours and only happened twice) he has drunk texted me to sext and I said it's not attractive if someone only messages to sext, he responded you do know I don't only text you to dirty talk? I promise I don't even though I like that very much. While we were sexting I asked him if he thought about me when he plays around with himself, he said yes he does then he asked me if i did. I texted him afterwards that asking how he was feeling? (hungover) we had a little conversation both of us were tired. then two days no message, so I decided to send him a message we talked for a bit he said he was exhausted because of his project and then we said goodnight and that's it. Now it's been two days again and he hasn't messaged me and I'm not going to text since I already texted first the last time, usually it's a balance.
He has a lot of green flags, like he said he's not in a rush and likes speaking to me and thinks I'm interesting and would like to get to know each other further.
Red flags would be that he's asked for nudes twice now. which I told him I'm uncomfortable with since I don't know him well enough. Also he does not have WhatsApp only snapchat and telegram. and he only comes online on telegram when we text, not much otherwise.
