Guy I’m talking to gives a girl shoulder ride in rave? should I stop talking to him?

[Anonymous]

I had to check through her social media that he was giving a shoulder ride to a friend… I don’t want to ask him about it though

[Andres77]

Don’t be petty. Is he YOUR boyfriend? No. So it doesn’t matter what he does if he’s not committed to you.

[Asker]

We’ve been exclusive and we slept together…

[Andres77]

Ok
Exclusive means expectations. Then you have to talk to him and clarify boundaries. Let him know what you think is ok. Find his expectations as well.
Communication is key.
I hope you find a positive resolution.
Good luck

[dailyoctopus94]

Probably so. Take some time off to address insecurities and communicate better about your situation with a potential partner. If you don't know anything more about this situation, imagining things won't help.

[Staximus]

Look big stalker, chill out. Relax, don't even worry about it. He's not your boyfriend.

[Xtendable]

It really depends. Some people think a shoulder ride, especially at a rave, isn’t something to be too concerned about

[Surely]

If you are only talking to this guy. Why should this even matter to you?

[EnglishEuropean]

Ms. Chung! This kind of petty jealousy is most unlike you.

[Anonymous]

Lmao funny he isn't your boyfriend so why are you acting like that?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Did that happen while you two was together cause some of that social media stuff is old

[Anonymous]

He’s probably only talking to you because he sees you as east anyways

[Asker]

As easy?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes an easy lay

[Asker]

Yeah I blocked him

[Opinion Owner]

Good! I pray you didn’t do anything stupid with him

[Birdlegs]

If you’re not dating I don’t see an issue

[Still-alive]

Do you even know how long ago that was?

[Asker]

It was today and I found out through the girls social media

[Still-alive]

How far along were you with the guy? Were you even exclusive yet?

[Asker]

We’ve been talking since mid June and have slept together and talked about going exclusive

[Still-alive]

Ok is this girl just a friend of his? Maybe they’re just like that normally but thats as far as they go with touch?

[Asker]

I never asked him for clarification

[Asker]

But I’m assuming they’re friends

[Asker]

He said he had no one to dance with

[Asker]

But he’s been more distant recently through text

[Still-alive]

Ehh i dont think that there's enough to go on that this was anything more than a friend thing. But if you really feel that way its up to you to break it off or not. I personally would want more proof there’s something more going on there

[Still-alive]

Yuo i still stand by what i said. Distance could mean anything

[Asker]

Would it be weird if I confronted him for it

[Still-alive]

Yes because then he will know you snooped on him lol which tbh would be a red flag to me. Js.

[Asker]

Lol okay then I’ll just wait and see

[Still-alive]

I think thats a better option yes. But if your gut is still telling you somethings up or fishy well you may wanna listen to it. But just wait a bit longer before you just end things.

[loveslongnails]

You need to grow up fast

[msc545]

Why does this matter?

[888theGreat]

what is that? She is sitting on top of him

[TallAnon]

It's definitely a bit awkward, up to you

[Anonymous]

Probably if you were interested in dating him.