Guy hasn't responded , it's been two days should I give up on him?

[Anonymous]

Well we agreed to be friends with benefits and he said he wouldn't do this to me again and he did it , before he took three days to respond, now two and maybe tomorrow three I don't know , I just feel like plan c this way right?

[spartan55]

Why would you agree to be in an friends with benefits anyway?

[Asker]

Well I don't want a boyfriend yet but still wanna be his friend and have sex with him

[spartan55]

It never works. Friends don't fuck each other...

[spartan55]

One of the perks of an friends with benefits is not having your friends with benefits getting all needy and acting like you are obligated to text back within 5 minutes. You don't seem to grasp that.

[Asker]

Well I got mad anyway because he said he wouldn't take so long to answer and he is doing it again , I mean I understand if it's one day , but it was on Saturday that he stopped answering , I mean it takes nothing to respond what I wrote I told I have a belly button piercing now and he could just have said nice and the conversation ends there if he wants and I would have gotten mad , but he didn't even read it but I see him online line what the fuck , I'm gonna tell him like what am I plan c and u got plan a and b already maybe it's too many girls u got and I should disappear then

[spartan55]

You know just because you see him online doesn't necessarily mean he is. You girls treat it like some infallible piece of evidence.
Please take this advice: DO NOT GET IN AN friends with benefits. Clearly you are not the right type of person for that arrangement. You getting mad over shit like that is crazy, along with accusing him of having multiple girlfriends... DUH that's what friends with benefits is!

[Asker]

I didn't know if he was doing it on purpose or he just got sidetracked, anyway both reasons are sad , well I'm no used to this , this has never happened to me with guys and I have many friends with benefits , and I even told him it bothered me and I payed him I debt that was a nude that I was playing fool and never thinking of paying the debt , but then I payed it bc he said he would stop if I payed the debt , so I imagined he did it on purpose then , and but now he is doing it again , it's not like I want to talk to him everyday, I just hate that my messages are being ignored , like now I'm thinking it might be because he hasn't enough interest in me like he does with his plan a and b, and I'm not saying they're girlfriend , just friends with benefits , and I'm the one that he likes the least maybe or the bc I live an hour from him and the other girls are so near and maybe have a place where they can fuck , I live with my parents , maybe he is already comfortable with his plan a and b and he is having me there just bc maybe one of em is not there, well I don't know but I needed to express it to know what's going on, because I'm not used to it and I don't know what to think because it's really depressing that he forgets to answer me , I understand if one day he doesn't wanna talk but , we were having a conversation that didn't end like wtf end it first before u stop talking to me at least don't u think I deserve that? Is that too much to ask? Just needed a simple "nice" so I see he is interested, I just got a fucking belly button god damn it and he can show more interest? Thats ok but it's depressing for me, usually guys are so into the stuff I do especially if it's about my appearance... I wanted to show it to him , now I don't feel like , my enthusiasm is so low now , that conversation already died for me

[Asker]

I had many friends with benefits*

[Anonymous]

Leave him alone or keep being dumb and entertain him. no one on gag gives a shit go get friends to complain too

[ProVox]

You're not his only "friend" 🤔

[boggboss]

Thats upto you lol

[boggboss]

At the end of the day uts only a friends with benefits u can dip from it when u want

[In_Trance]

Plan C is accurate