Is he just being a friend or is he interested in something more?

[7Phoenix7]

Me and one of my guy coworkers became friends simply because we get along really well and just click. I initially thought he might have been gay because his voice isn't deep and how persistent he was with being SO friendly. It's hard to explain. Like we talk about stuff that I'd talk to my female friends about as well. He left to an even higher paying job and continued to come visit me when he left work to chat. Me and my female friends use a lot of emojis through text. So I did the same with him cus you know... I thought he was gay. Well come to find out, he's not. And he texts things like, "when can I see you?" "Its been too long since I've seen you." "I can't wait to see you." Does that sound like he's into me or could he just be friendly like that?

[BLP11520]

Sounds like more, or possibly a great friend. I have had ladies who were just friends, and I never touched their hands or got really close to them physically. I actually lost friends, they wanted to date, and I didn't. How does he look into your eyes? Is he looking at your breast, butt?

[7Phoenix7]

I haven't noticed him ever looking at my breasts or butt. He looks into my eyes. But when we do talk I do notice we both are very comfortable and hold each other's gaze longer than I do with anyone else. But it could just be a good platonic relationship, which is nice.

[BLP11520]

He may not be sure how he really feels?

[7Phoenix7]

Yea I don't know, only time will tell

[BLP11520]

Yes, you will find out

[Guy13]

This sounds like an opportunity to grow into a relationship. YOu guys have already bonded. Any guy who is going to make an effort to come back to the place he used to work has an interest. You think you can mutually agree on a couple hours alone time somewhere? even like ice cream?

[7Phoenix7]

We have made plans to hang out and go eat. Thanks ✨

[Guy13]

🎉 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[jengeorge26]

I think he is in to you, I have received messages from guys like that too, they want something, I don’t think that he is gay.

[7Phoenix7]

Thanks Jen ♥️

[jengeorge26]

@7Phoenix7. Thank you for selecting me the M H Girl

[7Phoenix7]

You're welcome

[benfrankenstein]

Seems into you for sure. That’s how I would act if I liked a girl. Like, I'm friends with girls and don’t say things like that to them. I usually just ask them if they wanna chill, but don’t get all super excited about it the way I would with a girl I liked.

[7Phoenix7]

Thanks, yes my other guy friends are more chill and not like that.

[Avicenna]

It could be either. Now that he isn't a co-worker, spend time with him and see what he does.

[7Phoenix7]

Yea we made plans to hang out, thanks

[jengeorge26]

@7Phoenix7 Let me know, I am curious now lol.

[7Phoenix7]

@jengeorge26 lol I will

[spartan55]

How do you know he's not gay? P

[7Phoenix7]

Lol one of our coworkers sent him a selfie and he ignored it. So she asked if he was gay and he was upset and asked if he came off that way to me 😂😅

[spartan55]

That's hardly a declaration that he is straight, but whatevrt

[7Phoenix7]

So ur saying he could be gay and pretending not to be?

[spartan55]

Sure, it's entirely possible.

[7Phoenix7]

Gay but wanting to get sum sex from a woman

[spartan55]

Could be bisexual.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yeah he wants something more the question is what does he want

[JustADudePlayinADude]

Sounds pretty interested lol

[7Phoenix7]

Haha Thanks 4 ur input

[Nahid1707]

DO you like him? That is the question

[7Phoenix7]

I like him as a good friend, and I appreciate how good of a friend he has been to me. I haven't felt any sexual attraction yet but if any guy that I was physically attracted to acted like him I'd be 😻🥰😍

[Nahid1707]

Seems as you are being careful with dating which is good
And perhaps not date someone you work with
Good to hear you’re staying single

[NathanDavis]

definitely into you... lol

[msc545]

Ask him.