Is anybody else here extremely dissapointed in today’s men? Aren’t WE suppossed to be the ones leading society and setting the example for women?

[WhiteBoyChill]

I mean back when my Grandfather was growing up guys knew how to dress and they didn’t wear all this ugly ass greasy sweaty gay adidas and nike crap and obsess over their fcking retarted shoes.

Yet these same men will go around blaming women for dressing like prudes, even though we’re not even setting an example for them of what to follow.

Its like men aren’t even putting effort into themselves nowadays and its sad and pathetic.

Yet we still complain about women being feminist when most of us aren’t even likeable to begin with.

I mean back then most men actually had chivalry and knew how to court a woman and be polite and respectful instead of begging for sex like a bunch of immature little boys.

My point being I blame men for the downfall of society and not feminists, even though I don’t like feminists either.

[Anonymous]

Sadly in todays world we let the children run the day care.

Women have convinced society that they are still “under privileged” while being the most protected and privileged group of humans to ever exist in the history of humans.

So we as a society allow them to have full control over what is acceptable in society and what is not, while pretending that men are the ones in control and therefore blaming us for everything negative that happens via their poor choices and actions.

99% of all HR employees in business are female and mostly feminist. They get to discriminate against anyone they feel doesn’t drink their insanity kool-aid, they also put other sexist bigots in power positions under the guise of “equality”. Most Universities are 85+% female/feminist, which is why male admission is less and less every year. It’s why the “humanities” are producing more graduates than helpful and useful courses.

Society will eventually collapse. Hopefully sooner than later.

[WhiteBoyChill]

“So we as a society allow them to have full control”.

Exactly. That’s because weak men are allowing them to take over.

[Opinion Owner]

Yup.
The pussification of males starts in the schools which are run by feminist. Then the older males are scared to speak up because their lives are cancelled if they do.

I stood up against a bigoted feminist regime and they spent 2 and a half years destroying my life.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Well how the hell did it even get to the point where they wield power over us? Men are to blame

[FilmGuy93]

I'm extremely disappointed by today's men. I used to hate it when I heard women say things like "men aren't shit" and "men are trash." I'm still not a fan of that kind of rehtoric, but now that I've seen the way SO MANY men treat women, I kinda get it.

There's just this insane awkwardness and complete lack of self awareness in the stuff men say/do to women. Usually it is extremely presumptive, extremely personal/private stuff, and it's phrased in the weirdest ways possible. I don't know who is teaching these men how to act, but the shit is just not where it needs to be.

[WhiteBoyChill]

They’re actually kinda right tho bro. A lot of men are complete trash nowadays

[FilmGuy93]

Yup... rude, overly sensitive, socially awkward. It's really tough for me to tell women to keep getting excited about men, when I know that this is the kind of behavior so many of them can expect from us.

[BlueScorpio]

mmm no not really I guess? From personal experiences with men they have been pretty decent. The only men that dissappoint me are the usually men who are rude/mean or say hurtful things about spite or try to make me feel less than cause I'm a woman. Other than that.. meh. The men that matter the most to me in life is my dad, brother, nephew, and my husband.

[Haha456]

so you want to go back to the times where girls couldn't go to school or pick their husbands or work careers? boys bossing girls around?

only a misogynist would agree with that, which i am sure GAG is filled with them.

[BlueScorpio]

I don't think he said any of that. I think what he's trying to say is that a lot of men, in some ways, have lost their masculinity and don't know how to be men anymore cause they have grown somewhat soft? Because of this their looking in all the wrong places for guidance like those alpha male podcasters who are just as lost, angry etc.

[Haha456]

@BlueScorpio

Masculinity has nothing to do with leading society, silencing women, making sure men are in power rather than women.

A man can be masculine without diminishing women or saying that there should be no women in power. Being masculine is all about attitude. Taking charge in relationships without making a woman feel diminished, making a woman feel protected, knowing what he wants, goal oriented.

there is a big difference between being masculine and misogyny. I can very easily tell the difference between those two.

[WhiteBoyChill]

That’s what I’m saying. Men need to be more goal oriented and stuff.

[BlueScorpio]

Masculinity does have a lot to with leading society. If you look through out history most nations have been lead by men and still are. But anyway I agree, that they shouldn't harm or treat their women and daughters like dirt. A nation can rise if it's women aren't honored or protected.

[WhiteBoyChill]

@BlueScorpio Yeah like I wasn’t saying I want to take womens rights away and stuff. Only that men need to act more professional and chivalrous these days

[Haha456]

@BlueScorpio

Being masculine has nothing to do with silencing women, taking away other people's rights, making sure its your way or nobody else's way.

you can be masculine without being an asshole.

[Haha456]

@BlueScorpio

you likely were raised to see "patriarchy" or "misogyny" as masculinity.
you're just confused.

[BlueScorpio]

yeah sure, don't know how to break it to you but you still live in society that's mostly a patriarch. Like majority of the world is...

[Haha456]

@BlueScorpio

I have dated guys who were masculine with respecting the wishes of his woman. I know it when i see a masculine man. And trust me, you don't need to make a woman feel diminished in order to be masculine.

its sad when people see masculinity as stifling women or disrespecting women. And trust me , when guys do that, its not attractive or a turn on.

[Anonymous]

Adidas , Nike has great sports collections. I use their running shoes , sweatshirt and pants for running , cycling and other exercises. They are great. You are a retard keyboard warrior who probably can't run few yards. Let men whom they wanna be, in last decades men were also violent and killed entire nations , enslave people , were extremely racist and mysogynist. On an average they are a lot better now.

The whole chivalry and courting is stupid and was made for middle age knights who didn't have any other good thing going on with their life than war and courting women.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Lol. So men should wear exercise outfits as everyday attire instead of classy attire?

[WhiteBoyChill]

And on average men are a hell of a lot weaker now. There weren’t this many liberal crybaby men before

[sw1916]

I couldn’t agree more. And keep in mind men are the ones who created this issue because we lost our self respect and confidence because of how the internet has caused women to have so many options for men.

[Anonymous]

Um, men actually are leading society and setting the example for women. That's why feminists complain so much... they want to be the ones leading society, but they aren't... men are and always have.

You have just allowed yourself to be fooled by feminist bullshit. How embarrassing for you.

[WhiteBoyChill]

The hell you talking about? Feminists wouldn’t exist if men were raising their daughters proper

[Anonymous]

I agree most men have lost thier way. But I disagree about women being blameless. Women do exacerbate the problem by not holding men to a higher standard. Women will f*** a guy right after meeting him and proclaim she's taking control of her sexual destiny. Doesn't matter to her that he doesn't even know her last name. There used to be a balance women used to force men to be men. I'm sorry my friend but women have forgotten thier role as women as well.

[WhiteBoyChill]

You got a point. They definitely have lowered their standards

[rip999]

I wear a plain. Shirt, jeans, and some converse. That's my every day clothes. For special occasion I'll wear a button up shirt with the same outfit 😂 personally, I could care less about looking fashionable

[Alwayreckles93]

Actually I have seen men your age act way more mature then 30 year old men. Fuentes he is a good example of men child immature.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I would say a majority of us still aren’t quite there tho

[007kingifrit]

we still are. the women who think they can run things aren't having enough kids and so go extinct over time

feminism is a darwinian disorder. it clears itself out after a generation or so.

[Anonymous]

Lmao. Why did you start this out like it somehow an unpopular opinion? It's an unwritten law that everything is 100% the fault of men's and women can never be guilty of anything.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Didn’t say that but there would be no feminism if there were no weak men

[maximumpower]

You're 22 and have all the answers.

THAT'S the kind of person in which I'm disappointed. (Note the correct spelling - another reason to be disappointed.)

[jimmy2]

The down fall of boy growing up as men was lost 50years ago when Dad left home and never came back

[RandomGuy1030]

you're blaming men because you're scare to be called an incel

[Exterminatore]

Both are to blame.