Guys, this guy is acting like he fancies me but I think he's gay. Help?

[Anonymous]

Guys, I just started working at this new place and this guy on my team comes across a bit gay sometimes (things he says and how he says, wearing some tight clothes). A straight guy on my team also thinks he's gay. BUT since I started working there (about a week ago), I have caught him staring at my face across the room so many times, or turns his head to glance at my face if he's sitting next to me. One time a female colleague complimented my dress and he literally leaned back in his chair to look, checked out my legs and smiled. And he also teases me or makes flirty remarks, like telling me I have the prettiest office in the building. He has also touched my arm a few times. Anyway, I was wondering what guys on here think, could he be gay, or does he fancy me? And if so, why doesn't he say something or make a move?

[RobT312]

Being an outsider and with the info mentioned there is no way to know. If I were to assume, my bet would be:

1. Not gay. 2. There is interest but he’s not the type to be bold and just ask you out

3. he’s waiting for a signal from you, then he may make the next move.

[Part2603]

Lol, so every guy that doesn't ask you out is gay?

[Asker]

no what I'm asking...

[Part2603]

I'm wondering what "help" would entail here.

What exactly is the issue? If he likes you, he'll make a move, and if he doesn't then he won't. It might be because he's gay, but it might be because you're ugly, right?

Just sit tight, try to flirt with him if the opportunity presents itself, and wait for him to ask you out. Right? Isn't that standard operating procedure here?

[In_Trance]

What kind of help do you need with this

[Asker]

what I said at the end. Could he be gay, or does he fancy me? And if so, why doesn't he say something or make a move?

[In_Trance]

Clearly he doesn't like you enough to make a move or say something

[Asker]

yes maybe. But what's with the constant staring then? Do you think it's also too soon to make a move, since I've only been working there for a week?

[In_Trance]

Maybe he's bored and has nothing else to look at