Am I being unreasonable for being mad at my coach. Should I send her a message?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

So my coach who has been inconsistent / not giving me two sessions per week like I had originally paid for and instead spaced them out has also been absent for a week because annual leave decided, that even though I mistaking thought our session was 7:30 instead of 7, couldn’t reschedule to the following week or spare me any more time which I found incredibly selfish as I had been patient with her when things come up. I have autism and I got the time mixed up ONCE.

I ended up going (late) and she was very firm in telling me she “needs to go” in the half hour because her boyfriend has an appointment. She also given me heavier weights and didn’t even spot me, she was nice to me before it seems she switched as I follow one of the other personal trainer (who I didn’t know was her boyfriend on social media.)

I was thinking of saying “how many more sessions do I have left for this block can you let me know I’m just saying I think it’s unfair how you couldn’t / wouldn’t reschedule yesterday when I was very patient with you not being able to do two per week in the past when that’s what I had bought in the block. I think you should be more understanding when people have been patient and understanding toward yourself and your time, as it’s an easy mistake and I was open about my condition, sometimes it can happen.

[Sandeeppingping]

You're wrong about showing up late, people just don't like it when someone makes an appointment and they don't show up on time, so that's on you, but the 2 sessions per week sounds like it's on her, what does "spaced them out" mean, I understand what it means just asking in this context, like she gave you 4 half sessions or what?

[Anonymous]

I don't think she was being selfish In not sparing you anymore time and her not wanting to reschedule for the following week. That part is totally on you and your fault for being late. In a court of law, the judge would side with your coach because the judge would have seen it as you should have been on time.

As for not giving you 2 sessions a week like you paid, yeah I would speak up about that. Definitely. You paid for a service and your coach isn't delivering that service.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I just think it makes her seem money motivated and selfish and I’d like a coach with a bit more empathy as I’m a pretty empathetic person myself and like I said I was very patient with her but I guess I can’t expect people to be overly nice because I’m overly nice that’s like asking a vegan asking a shark not to eat it! It still will if it’s hungry!

[Opinion Owner]

It's not really about being money hungry. It's possible they are on strict deadlines. I'm sure you aren't the only person she is coaching. Take for example personal trainers especially those working in gyms, even if you pay for your session with them, if you show up late they won't reschedule or make more time for you, because it is on you to make sure you are on time or to a least call them and let them know you are going to be late.

I learnt that when I booked in for a PT session. I showed up late to my session! however for me I was very very lucky, because it was actually the receptionist fault and not my fault, as she gave me the wrong booking time! even when I triple checked the date and time. The receptionist still gave me the wrong time for my PT session. If I didn't have the proof showing the receptionist gave me the wrong booking time. The Personal Trainer would not have went ahead with the session.

[Zolly99999]

I think she sounds unreasonable.. especially if she was moving things around to fit her schedule but couldn't do it for you once.

[Guardian45]

I would speak to her manager and ask for a refund or a new Trainor.

[Guy13]

Sorry this is happening to you.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Am I being unreasonable And lol shit happens such as life I just don’t know if I should tell her how I feel