Crush at new job changed. Why?

[Anonymous]

He was asking me mad questions now he dont say hi?

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Thanks so one day like a week or more ago he started a convo with me. It was brief but we kept smiling so i assumed we both felt SOMETHING. He kept asking me stuff lile about my career plans, what i studied in college, how old i am, how i like this job. He made a joke about robbing a bank LOL and if i would help him. I said no cause wtf? Lmao. Anyway... I barely see him. he's in another dept so we only run into each other by chance. I saw him a few times since then and

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He has said hi to me and other girls near me and once i was alone and he passed and sad 'you ok?' And i nodded. Honestly i am weird and quiet so i know maybe some people might think bad stuff about me but i have bad social anxiety. but anyway today he saw me twice... said hi to the girl next to me in passing and the second time he saw me he didn't say anything to me. Maybe he's just busy. I get it. I just wonder whats up and if he felt anything for me.

[PrettyPriya]

How in the world are we supposed to know that? There is almost no context to your question at all. We cannot read minds. You are going to have to give a lot more detail than that for anyone here to give a good answer.

I suggest using the update box to update the question with as many details surrounding his change in behaviour as possible. Use two updates if you have to. There is just no way anyone can give a good answer based on what you have provided.

Once you have made the update, I would be happy to revise my opinion and hopefully help you figure this out. Until then, I can say (or guess) that maybe he had a bad day or week? Again, who knows. I could list just about any reason and have it technically make sense but that’s because of the lack of detail.

[PrettyPriya]

Thanks for the update! That is just in time as I am going to go to bed. Maybe he saw you as quiet and shy and didn’t want to press you.

That is the way the situation seems. He kinda learned a little about you and that you were quiet so perhaps he just doesn’t want to be too forward and pester you since assumingely you don’t talk much.

Is that a possibility? It could be busy but sounds more like he adjusted to your personality.

[Asker]

Ohh... he's quite loud at times. When he spoke to me I was pretty unusually talkative but maybe he noticed i am very quiet otherwise. I like him and loud guys. So he wouldn't need to adjust to me lol.

[Asker]

But thanks maybe i. need to just let it be. can't force it

[Thepumpkinhead]

Since when did he not? Maybe he's just having a bad day

[Asker]

Since today. Maybe i should let it slide... You have a point.

[Thepumpkinhead]

It's just today then. Let's see what he will be acting the following days. Observe first before coming up to conclusion

[Asker]

True thanks!

[Avicenna]

He figured you weren't interested/that he had made a bad impression.

[Asker]

Nope. Im socially awkward and quiet. Unless someone comes directly and talks to me.

[Asker]

So do you think i need to just move on and forget him? I dont chase guys i am very traditional.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, I think you should

[Asker]

Okay
Too bad

[Asker]

I am used to men chasing me down to some extent

[Guy13]

You must have answered incorrect. What did you say?

[In_Trance]

Maybe he didn't like the answers you were giving