was all good until there was a "third member" mentioned sneaking in your relationship.
Trust me you'd do better in an all-human threesome, than a threesome with substances..
Get out NOW because fire is at your heels lol
Try to find a guy who will use you but, sober. I mean it could be seen as using or just fulfilling needs. It's usually how it works: Women get desired validation. Men get desired sex.
Also for the sake of healthy living and knowing you can do better- just get yourself a good guy and realize you're every bit deserving of one. Plenty of guys who'd be hard working and up to validating you with you caring about their need, instead of just offering it half-heartedly. It will be genuinely getting validation and sex, with genuine communication and appreciation, other than just "running by a script," and you both know it.
You ultimately decide
But I beg... please leave him and leave a card to some therapist. If he wants help for himself, he'll call the number, but don't get dragged down like that.
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I think it would be best to end it. To get some therapy. This cycle will only repeat itself. You’ll end up running into men who are just like him. It’s not a good thing. May I ask why you are seeking validation? Validation that you’re beautiful?
Those aren't mixed signals, he likes fucking you, nothing else.
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Do not get hook up with a drink that nonthing but pains and sorrows
Both of you need therapy.
C. Sounds mutual to me? So why not continue.
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