He said I was boring, too skinny, not toned enough and would always talk that he was better than me
This guy was balding, a lot more skinnier than me but he would bully me about my looks and would flip out over small things
Because you let him. These questions drive me insane. That’s like asking how did the robber get in my house after you left the front door open. You just described every negative quality you could want in person, yet you admit to taking him back? Why would you ever want someone like this in your life in the first place? Don’t complain about him, he’s not the problem. You are. You know who he is and yet you continue to accept him back with all the consequences that come with it. Have more respect for yourself, because you can do better. Good luck
Probably has a lot of narcissistic traits and that is what makes him feel better about himself is making other folks feel about themselves the way he feels about himself.
And the majority of narcissists will never change because they don't think anything is wrong.
The best thing you can do for yourself is to just stop any form of contact with him and move on because if you don't I could almost promise you that their will be plenty more hurt, sadness, anger and could possibly even cause you to question your own sanity.
Cause he feels like its easier to get back with you than someone else. He sounds like he had a lot self esteem issues, and somewhat abusive. He probably thinks he can't pull that with anyone else or lacks options so your his go to since you're his ex. Best thing to do is not let him back into your life cause he will continue being a terrible person towards you.
Because when women who know their worth stop messing with him he knows you'll be there for more abuse. You are like an old comfortable pair of shoes that he throws in the back of the closet when the fancy new shoes start to hurt his feet.
I'm being harsh so you will stop letting yourself be used in this way.
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Because abusive assholes tend to be insecure and emotionally needy people.
The real question is, why do you allow him to come back if he's treating you so poorly?
He may have low self-esteem & is just projecting it onto you, but that is no excuse to be an ass.
If you're interested in keeping him around, YOU need to put your foot down & tell him that this is the last time & tell him that you won't take his bullshit laying down.
If he wants to be a REAL partner, he needs to lift you up, not try to tear you down.
Best of luck to you, Hun.
"bully me about my looks and would flip out over small things"
"I was boring, too skinny, not toned enough and would always talk that he was better than me"
he's abusive mentally and emotionally. He needs a broken nose. in my opinion
Why does he keep coming back to you?
He's an asshole and you know it. Yet he believes he's got an edge over you because you've (probably repeatedly) allowed him to take advantage of you.
You have to cut him off your life forever.
Sounds like he was projecting his sadness from self image into you and you’d listen and take it. It feels good to bring others down below oneself when one comes from a place of self loathing. He wants someone to make him feel good and needs to discover love and heal from his wounds. You may be kind and good but maybe aren’t equipped enough to sustain and endure yet.
Send him to Christ for therapy…
I disagree with these responses. I think he has a poor self esteem and put you down to make you not notice his flaws. He's desperate and is afraid if he is himself and honest and kind you will lose interest and leave.
doesn't seem like it worked. I feel bad for both of you.
He’s using you love. He knows ur never gonna stand up/ leave him so he can go and come back whenever he wants to. Just like all the other responses mine is the same, why let him? Show him ur not gonna take his shit anymore! Show him u have self respect. He isn’t ur soulmate or anything. He doesn’t like you but finds to play with you fun
Because when not in a War or a fight for their lives, human males are never very stable creatures. I hate hearing it when a good girl gets back with a jerk that doesn't deserve her... that is JUST as baffling!
He is coming back to you because by now he knows he can have control over you and he enjoys the power amd control he has iver your emotions also he feels good about himself by putting you down
So, let me ask. If he is all you say , why in blazing comets do you keep taking him back? Whatza matta wit you, got no brain?
Do you allow him to come back? He sounds like he has a mess of his own problems talking to others he supposedly loves, like that.
jeez, sounds like a little bitch, the best thing you can do with this degree of negativity is to remove it from your life completely
The real question is, why entertain him?
I would just block him and be done with it.
He Misses the Kisses, This Bald Freak. lol!!! xxoo
Probably because he knows you have low self esteem can’t think for yourself resorting to a webpage for answers
Bc they always come back
If you want to marry and have a kid one day before 30 happens choose wisely now
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He is just a kid, who doesn't know the value of feelings. He is playing as a kid.
So be cautious of this type of person to have peace in life.
The question is why do you let him come back?
Why would you take someone like that back? Make a clean break and move on.
Get rid of that bum, you don't need to be treated like that
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