My male friend and i have been texting each others everyday - there is not a day without hearing from him.
But on Sunday we went to a party together he got drunk and tried to kiss me and told me that he attracted to me but i said no and we had little argument. Until now i haven't heard from him not even a word both texts and calls - 😤
He is hurt and embarrassed, it's that simple. He feels he did the wrong thing, but also couldn't handle the rejection and is hurt that you don't feel the same as he does. It was his natural feeling for you as he probably has liked you for a long time and may have felt you felt the same for him too. Clearly you are an amazing girl for him feel this way. But you also did the right thing by not reacting to his advances, if you don't feel the same.
Now, send him a nice message to say you really care about him, you don't want to lose him as a friend, and you really would love your friend back. Give him time. If for any reason he doesn't get back to you and is ignoring you, then don't chase either. Remember, you have done nothing wrong here.
Really? Even my dense ass knows your guy friend likes you! But you rejected him so he's distancing himself from you.
He was talking to you daily. Why? To try and get to know you better.
And when you turned him down at the party? Well he's hurt. And I highly doubt things are going to go back to the way they were after this- assuming he wants to stay friends (probably not). Maybe it's just me, but after someone I like friendzones or rejects me, I want as much space as possible from them so I can try and get over them.
In other words, let him reach out to you first. He needs time to heal. And if not, well you know he was just interested in dating, not a friendship.
A drunk person will usually show their feelings a little more. He really likes you and wanted to move the relationship forward to the next level. You completely rejected him. At this point you have told him your not interested in a relationship with him and he is not going to waste his time with you anymore.
The majority of guys that are friends with a girl end up liking her. If she is at least mildly attractive to him, they would only be friends if they had things in common, which is also what guys usually seek in a partner so they often end up liking their female friends romantically.
have you called in to see him and did he know that the relationship was plutonic, as he may have been thinking you were a couple and he now feels very hurt for being a fool so go and see him give him a hug if you can and say sorry for not understanding him. he may well be very happy to see you or not.
he's got a crush or feelings on you which you already know and probably embarrassed, crushed etc you turned him down. so he might not want to ever be bothered, just give it time
Seriously. You crushed him and he worked so hard. Nothing is wrong. Like others said, he is embarrassed. Your responses let him know he might have a chance. Then, shut down.
It’s not easy to continue a friendship after rejection. Give him space but shoot him a text you’re willing to still be friends and value your friendship.
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Guys do not make time for females they are not interested in. He discovered that you wanted the benefits of having him in your life without him getting the benefits of you being with him, so he no longer needs or wants you in his world.
Good for him. Most guys are to simp to toss a female who doesn’t want them.
I'm assuming this is a joke. Guys do not want to be platonic friends w/ girls. He pretended to be your friend until he could take a shot. He did and he missed so now he's embarrassed.
Maybe he feels embarrassed that he made a butt hole by getting drunk also he told you he was attracted to you and you scolded him by saying no, the little argument got to him I bet what do you think?
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