How do I deal with dating an introvert guy who likes to spend a lot of alone time to himself? (Page 2)

[skilled_jellyfish]

Bring the issue up to him directly and don't shy away your frustration. It's time he makes a choice. He might be really focused on his projects right now and can't be in a functional relationship.

[Asker]

Thank you!!

[DiegoO]

Your expectations are not matching with who he really is. If that's a problem, only you know what to do. If it's not, only you know that to do.

The problem here is not him, nor your expectations. Is what you conceive as ideal Vs reality.

[Jamie05rhs]

It sounds like you two are not compatible. That is my honest opinion.

[elduderinosupreme]

I'm the same way. I have a rhythm I don't like being disturbed. I prefer being alone most of the time. It's a big reason I'm single. I wouldn't be surprised if he has adhd and hyperfocuses fir long periods of time. I do the same.

[QuietVerbena]

Give him his alone time but tell him you need some cuddling time too

[emily2009]

Are you sure he's your boyfriend? Does he know this? Bc it kinda sounds like he isn't.

[Desconhecida]

How do you know he cares about you more than a friend?

[User3191989]

What does he talk about other than music. I mean, does he show interest in you. Introverts have a hard time confronting their feelings

[AngryCarl]

Well like you say you're drifting apart. Either simply allow the drift to continue, or make it official.

[Luckycharms12]

Think he needs to do it for you get out of his comfort zone bring you closer together. If he wants make you happy sure he enjoy it too.

[Nominal]

Wow, įdk. Make him little bit pervert somehow. XD

[dustybiker]

Break-up. Find an adult to date?

[Anonymous]

Those people are just too much work.

[In_Trance]

you put up with it. It will never change

[Subarugirl]

... or she could find someone who actually meets her social and emotional need with in a relationship instead of "putting up" with someone who she isn't compatible with.

[In_Trance]

@Subarugirl She could... but she won't. The fact that she's asking this question, trying to figure it out says so

[Subarugirl]

Well yeah… because that’s what heathy well adjusted adults do. They try to find solutions the the relationship problems they are experiencing…..

[In_Trance]

@Subarugirl those so-called well-adjusted healthy adults also failed to recognize red flags and warning signs early on. They think they can change people or the situations will change with their love.
They won't.

[Subarugirl]

…. Yeah well by definition that isn’t a well adjusted heathy adult..

[Joker_]

drop him

[ZenJen444]

He doesn't like you