Second date with a guy don’t know if he’s into me?

[Anonymous]

So I had my second date with a guy he’s never kissed me or even texting me he doesn’t give me any clear signs he’s into me he takes hours to reply to me.
Should I just give up on him as it’s annoying me not knowing where i stand and I don’t want to be waisting my time I seen also he put up a new picture on tinder so I’m like well he’s clearly not that into me if he’s doing that like I don't know

[FunnyGiy]

Maybe because he’s not ready to kiss you. As long as he’s willing to go on a date and put the same effort in that you are.

Then keep dating. Unless you’re not happy with him. Then call it off. But if you’re not sure then go on a few more dates and maybe talk with him on it.

He can’t read your mind either and know what you want or need. So you need to ask him and tell him this stuff.

Maybe he has had girls who did not want to kiss right away or maybe he just as I said isn’t ready. Maybe it takes him longer to be confortable with this stuff.

You need to communicate. If he says no. Then it’s a no.

[Asker]

It’s just he takes like 5 or six hours to text me back all the time and I mean I don’t get it if he’s really into me he should show it and make it known he is I feel like he’s a friend that i meet like I don’t feel I’m pretty when I’m with him I feel like I’m nothing if that makes sense while other guys make me feel pretty

[FunnyGiy]

Well if you're not happy then maybe it is not meant to be. That or you need to tell him how you feel about what he is doing. He can't read your mind.

Otherwise, you can tell him that you think you're better off as friends and then start dating one of the guys you think you would be happier with.

[Asker]

If he texts me again I might just say that I’m not trying to be too forward or anything but what is it your looking for as I don’t want to waste your time or my own? Would that be good to say?

[FunnyGiy]

Be honest about your feelings. Don’t be mean about it there is nothing wrong with either of you.

You just don’t think it’s meant to be and you don’t want to waste your time or his.

Yeah if that’s honestly how you feel. That would be fair to say

[Asker]

Ok thank you

[FunnyGiy]

You’re welcome.

[In_Trance]

Of course not; it's only the second date

[Asker]

I understand that but should he not be wanting to text me more after meeting me twice now like I feel like im just a friend to him

[In_Trance]

Give it time

[Anonymous]

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