You see it on here all the time! Are they jealous.. or is their ego fragile or what!! What’s the big deal if one of your mates enjoys treating the ladies 🤷♀️
Because some women like to manipulate men into shaming each other, all for a woman's benefit.
But to answer the question, it's because no one deserves free sh*t just for having a pussy; especially if said pussy-owner tries to talk about wanting "equality" while using her sex (or having sex) to become richer. It's a case of "feminism when it benefits me; 'equality' when it doesn't."
Seriously; what makes women entitled to men spending copious amounts on them? The implication from the man is that sex would be implied, but if so, that just makes the woman a prostitute/ho. And if the woman doesn't have to give the man anything in return, then that just makes her a piece of sh*t parasite exploiting men who she knows wants more from her, while she's unwilling to be honest with him and tell him he's not getting any pussy or additional dates from her.
So yeah, the women who do this are pieces of sh*t and the men who do are even worse, as they're pathetic simps desperately trying to bribe their way into some chick's panties; a chick who likely has no intention on giving him said sex in exchange for gifts and cash.
And no, there is literally no excuse or spin for wasting hundreds of dollars on someone you just met and do not know. I'll definitely call you pathetic for being played like that and somehow thinking it's "gentlemanly" or "how I was raised." No, you're just a moron.
Trying to say stuff like "you just can't afford it" doesn't excuse you being a self-loathing simp (since you all want me to say it) and walking ATM to women who don't even respect you. It's pathetic and nothing you say can change that.
By the way, actual rich men don't HAVE to spend money on women; that's how they stay rich and don't lose all their wealth by simping to every ho who gives him a nice look or smile.
If you are generous to your male friends and everyone else, no one is going to judge you for it. But if you ONLY do this to pretty women on dates, you are f*ckin' pathetic and are demonstrating you have nothing else to offer a woman but your steady dwindling amount of money, and she will probably only see you as such. No ifs, ands, or buts. But like I said, if you treat your friends, family, coworkers, etc, the same way and are just a generous person, then it's fine.
Those guys are bitter losers who resent women in general. It's sour grapes. They don't respect women but can't understand why women don't respect them.
They are male versions of the bitter, angry feminists whom they blame for their misery and loneliness. They don't understand or like women. They take their anger and jealousy out on men with character who treat women like ladies.
Instead of enjoying the pleasure of a woman's company, they think women should repay a meal or a couple of drinks with sex. Because they think women's only value is sex.
I think those guys are isolated. I might blame a lack of positive male role models and the on-line presence of male gurus who pander to losers and inflame their hostility and bitterness toward women.
Honestly, other people should do what they want. I don't get involved in other people's business. If it works for them, it works for them. I know for sure that I prefer taking turns paying, I earn my own money and I like treating the other person too and that won't change
Because men from my generation are immature and some don't even realize they are adults and not the popular high school football player.
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I suppose it’s a misinterpretation of context. If fella ‘A’ has only or mostly been taken advantage of by women, then he can’t but assume that’s always the case. If fella ‘B’ gets rewarded for his investment more often than not, it just makes sense to stick with what works. However, from outside it appears to A that B is a chump or fool, or as the young’ns are saying now, a “simp”. Ell oh ell!
It depends on how far along they are in their relationship. If the dude buys something for his steady girlfriend or wife, then she has earned that "perk". Most men are fine with this scenario.
The contention or shaming is because of men giving free stuff to a date or even a stranger. He's "putting out" for a blind investment. He's easy, and more self-respecting men are trying to correct him.
They're the misogynists who believe all women are greedy gold diggers who would actually go on a date simply to get a free meal. LOL They've all been butt hurt or rejected by someone (who hasn't?). They think that since women scream for equality they should EXPECT to pay for their share of the food/date, especially if it's the first one and you don't really know one another.
These guys think that anyone who pays for a girl is weak little simp who's just trying to impress her at any cost. It's been my experience that these guys are horribly insecure and consistently pick the "wrong girls", if you know what I mean.
That seems like a classic case of "only on GAG but not in real life."
Same reason some women shame toher women for caring about men in any capacity. Misery loves company.
I personally have no problem, in fact actually enjoy, treating a woman to something.
But only those who don't expect it and have no problems treating me too. (Even if they don't do it)
I have no interst in gold diggers
Does it really matter? I mean, does any guy really feel shame for such a thing? I consider this a non issue.
Honestly I don't know, i usually do it for the first 2 dates and then she pays for the third one bc that's how in my head it's supposed to be bc a relationship goes both ways.
u would you believe that they never mock me face to face... lol
online people do not really have an idea about my personal life anyway, lol
I don't consider it shaming but I do try to warn them about "foodie calls" where a woman will go out with a guy solely to get a free meal. Frankly I'd rather treat a homeless vet or someone who is just down and out to a nice meal than spend a cent on a woman who is only there for the meal. But my female friends or women I have gone out with several times? Not an issue, because I know they are there for me and not free stuff.
Well, put it this way. How are your going to be in a relationship if you can't demonstrate in buying the lady a drink or a plate of food?
I guess I was brought up in the days when the guys were the ones who always paid for dinner. I never would occur to me to shame someone for doing that.
Can't say I've seen that on here, although I'm sure there are plenty that call you a 'simp' for doing that...🙄
are they actually shaming each other or just telling them the truth that it’s unnecessary and a waste of money usually? 😂 if a girl actually is interested in you and really wants to hook up then you don’t need to buy her anything to butter her up. There’s nothing wrong with buying your wife or girlfriend dinner or drinks if she deserves it though.
It's nice to pay for a date who is a dateable nice lady. We are talking about paying for women who are trash and taking advantage of men. That's stupid asf.
I don’t understand it myself if that is true then they would try and shame me them because I will buy dinner and drinks for girls. I don’t have a problem with it.
Because they simping. Simping gets you nowhere with ladies. I know a guy who girls basically date for drinks and a good meal.
for the same reasons men get shamed for doing the opposite. there's no winning as a man unless you actually win.
Women want feminism only when it benefit them, that "lady" have a job, don't she?
I have no problem buying a woman dinner 🍽 or drinks while on a date. It's just the way I was raised however if a date insists on sharing the bill or taking turns in buying drinks 🍸 then that's fine with me too.
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