Because most men think with their dicks , it’s how we were made , so it’s hard
For Most guys to contain themselves , When we see a beautiful girl that catches our eyes we aren’t thinking of her relationship status we are Thinking we want her in our arms even though it is an asshole thing that most guys do when she is already in a Relationship with someone , girls do this shit as well , it’s are natural instincts when we see someone that we find beautiful and amazing we will try to win her to be in our arms with the hope she will find us attractive as well it’s a challenge so Guys that hit on other guys girls are pretty much assholes , they are only really thinking of themselves , they aren’t thinking of the guy she is with , they are thinking of themselves, It’s a selfish trait. A guy is turned on by conquering and dominating a girl , If he can win her heart and pull her away from her partner it will boost his Ego thinking he is the man that he got what he wanted , thinking she left him for me , Again it’s an asshole thing guys and girls do , when I was in relationships with girls I always had other girls trying to get with me not caring That I was in a relationship already , they just wanted
To fuck me so this shit happens all the time, because People are selfish , Why guys in relationships with girls are very Territorial over his girlfriend , he knows what other guys are thinking , just like girl’s know what other
Girls are thinking , she might take it that he is being insecure but really he is trying to get her not to disrespect him and be drawn to one of These douchebag guys that are Just trying to feed their Ego and get
Their dick wet because if they do get what they want they usually kick her to the curb after they banged her a few times , because no guy will stay committed to a girl that cheats on her partner he won’t trust her so if a girl can cheat on her Man she is trash , Girls that cheat on their partners are selfish pieces of shit as well, If she can allow another man to conquer her then she needs To be on the streets where she belongs , No guy wants a girl that cheats on him , if she can’t stay faithful to me then there is no way I will stay faithful to her , Love grows when 2 people resist temptations and remove selfishness for each other , If you can’t do that for Your partner then you don’t Deserve to be in a relationship go back to the streets where you belong. Same as a guy that can cheat on his Girl , Kick his ass to the curb you deserve better
Than that , Sadly most people
Can’t do this and that’s why so many relationships end , because they choose selfishness over
Their partner
So like you said the same goes for a guy that's in a relationship and either goes after a girl or adds a bunch of girls that post sexually explicit images/videos on their social media accounts and then the guy blocks his accounts so his girlfriend/wife can't see it?
Exactly , if he is doing that then he basically already cheated on her , anytime you have to hide
Something from your partner is pretty
Much borderline cheating , cheating doesn’t always have to be physical , not being able to resist temptation for
Your partner is cheating , There is definitely something wrong in that relationship if a partner is resorting to that that type of shit , It’s a selfish trait
, because how would he feel if she was
doing to to him behind
His back? if you can’t wear
Your partners shoes before making decisions then that just shows they don’t really love you , they like the convenience of you , No relationship is
Perfect but when you make
Each other a number 1 priority and remove selfishness for each other that’s where love grows , So if he is secretly checking out all those girls and I guarantee he was flirting with some , Then that leaves the ball in your court if you want to stay in a relationship with someone like that?
Well, cause they see a woman they think is attractive and they think (well she could still wanna f#$k, you never know..) Unfortunately for us guys, we today especially have given in to our animalistic desire to mate with any woman we see as even somewhat attractive. It's almost become an addiction.. We have definitely become slaves to them.. As a result, many solicit sex from even women in relationships.. Especially since there are some who happily give themselves even if coupled up or married.
Yeah well im not like that im not single and im not interested in another other guy who is only offering me sex because if that's all he can bring to the table then its no need for me to even talk with him unlike with my man its more than just sex its someone i want to have a future with.
Of course as it should be.. Those are probably the same type of guys who would hold their girl tight when other guys are checking her out. Well as long as you are not giving them any incentive to message you those requests, like any provocative pics, or messages, a having any past where you did entertain sexual suitors.
Nope not at all not interested in men wasting my time
Thats why my boyfriend is 10 older with traditional values
Guys my age and younger are whores
@ItsMykolaJenkins That's too broad of a statement and kinda untrue considering more men our age are virgins than in the past. I always had more traditional values but it waned over the years since it's hard to find a women my age who actually wants that.
Because guys think about sex like every fifteen seconds or something like that. Also, those guys may not even know that you are in a relationship. Regardless, this isn't on them, its on you! Why would you leave your page open to strangers when you are in a relationship? You can limit who has access your page, or you could remove any pictures of you from the profile! I got guys in other countries soliciting sex from me when I had my picture up. Now that I have no picture, it still happens, but no where NEAR as much! If you don’t want guy’s talking sexually to you, there are so many things that you could realistically do to at least mitigate it. If you’ve not taken those steps… then yeah, it is on you. Look, should you be able to walk down the street at night naked without knowing you will likely get raped? Yes! But men are driven by their Amygdala, and studies show that in men BOTH attraction, and sexual arousal are handled by their Amygdala. So while you SHOULD be able to put “In a Relationship” on your page and never receive any inappropriate messages, realistically you and I BOTH know that’s not how it works in the real world. So why you would not take steps to mitigate it but still be surprised, that is beyond my ability to reason.
They are not even strangers they are dudes i been i had on my Facebook account
That’s not even remotely related to anything I wrote. You control who gets to speak with you on facebook. Look, if one guy on your friend list spoke to you in a sexually inappropriate manner, that’s on him. But if it’s happening a LOT, then it makes me wonder who precisely are you allowing to follow you? If THAT many men are being inappropriate with you, well… again you might want to look at the nearest mirror to find the ultimate problem. I’m sorry to come across so bitchy, but facebook has some of the best safety practices on the social media landscape. If you are getting harassed, then YOU have something set wrong. Well, that or you just allowed anyone who so much as asked to be a friend, access to your feed!
Right like im going to know you who is going to message me for sex and who is not the way i see this is that men don't care how you look what you post they will still message you with the intentions of just wanting sex from you
Right, so you block them and move on… Just like every other female with a social media account. In other words, all of us!
Delete and block them, stop talking to other males if you have a boyfriend and all they want is sex
@ItsMykolaJenkins At last, someone else speaking some words of wisdom! I hardly let even use Facebook except to keep in touch w/ my Grandparents and some of my family in England. But even I know that you don’t have to speak to or get messages from anyone unless YOU allow them. I also agree with your assessment that if she is in a relationship, she shouldn’t be speaking to other guys behind her boyfriends back! Also why is it so hard for her to just block obnoxious, inappropriate guys? Every other woman on earth, on any online forum faces the same issue… just block them and move on! Why would anyone dwell on anything like that? Thanks Mykola, I appreciate your words even if she doesn’t. Take care, Laura
She is attention seeker she
wants us to tell her "YOU ARE SO IRRESITIBLE AND SEXY OMG MEN LOSE THEIR HEADS OVER HOW SEXY YOU ARE. ALL MEN WANT YOU!"... Not gonna happen , with me at least. And no... not all men are pigs ready to fuck every hole out there
@ItsMykolaJenkins OMG you think exactly like I do on BOTH of those. I hate the “all men…” trope as much as the “all women…” we are all different, some people misbehave regardless of gender! How have I never met you before now? Do you mind if I follow you? (Feel free to do the same). I mentioned the “all men…” trope because I was raped by an uncle on my 13th birthday. Yet I hated the #believeAllWomen thing, some women DO lie about it, but even as a rape survivor I believe all evidence! Because it was evidence that got my uncle arrested, not the fact that a girl accused him!
Omg hun so sorry what happened to you. damn
Hope you recovered🤗🥰
My boyfriend was in jail 9 month because his ex lied he beat her... so i know what im talking about
@ItsMykolaJenkins Yes, although I will never fully know who I would have been had that not happened, I am doing so much better, and now I'm just determined to help young girls who are going through that today! I’ll be 20 on the 15th so the 7th anniversary is coming up, but I was incredibly blessed to come from a family with the financial resources to get me the therapy I needed! And although I have been raped, I don’t personally know anyone who was falsely accused (other than a friend of my dad during his divorce, but he wasn't arrested or anything). It still really hurt him though. But just looking at history, everyone from Emmett Till, to the Duke Lacrosse players, to that Supreme Court Justice, a few years back. All of them falsely accused by women, and Emmett Till was murdered because of that false accusation! Im sorry but plenty of people are more than happy to say “if just one person is executed for a crime they didn't commit, we should abolish the death penalty!” (And maybe we should). Yet why do these same people not see the hypocrisy of believe all women… except the woman who accused Emmett Till, and the Duke Lacrosse players… and… and… and…! It sickens me. I really hope your boyfriend is okay! That MUST have taken quite the emotional and psychological toll on him? Especially being treated as guilty when he knew he was innocent! I’m so sorry he had to go through that!
Make your page private and all your photos private too. If these men have nothing and no one to view, they won't message you. Make your page only viewable to your FB friends. The messaging will stop. Block anyone who does this. YOUR message will come through loud and clear.
There are men looking for sex and will message anyone who might have a vagina hoping to hit pay dirt. Just thirsty and sad.
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Unfortunately it’s the nature of men being the initiators. They will make their case. It’s your choice at the end to accept or reject. In my experience even girls that say they are looking for a serious relationship all end up having sex with someone as some point. It’s just they choose who. So likely girls aren’t that in need of it from strangers. There’s always a ‘friend’ that’s wants to do her lol
And there’s always someone she’s willing to say yes to. But of course there is the exceptional to the rule. Some girls really just don’t have Casual or friend sex at all but really most seem to
So I wouldn’t see it as bad. Just it’s not what you want or rather not from that guy
Your likely to be very attractive, men especially the young will try thee luck.
In addition I’ll add that there are girls who wear revealing clothes, pout, pose and either consciously or subconsciously seek approval from others which lends itself to this behaviour be it right or wrong.
It’s extremely likely that there are a number of men which have masturbated to a photo you have posed.
Is it men that you are familiar with? If it's strangers then I guess they are checking out your Facebook and finding you attractive. I'm also guessing that they've tried it on others and it's worked in the past
Those men are part of my friend list
I think its something that has just always happened from my knowledge, i can think back 20 odd years and men did it then. It is odd, its like the unsolicited dick pic, i think they think more of themselves and women will just say yes... or they going on this idea that that if the message 1000s of women one might be up for it (as not every relationship is happy)
Probably the way you present yourself. Make yourself professional/classic sexy and people have a lot more respect for you. They’ll feel you are too good for them.
Im not showing any naked pictures of myself on any of my social media platforms so i don't understand why this keeps happening to me
You don’t have to be naked. Presentation has varying degrees of what is tasteful.
Yeah your right
Biologically, men can detach sex and emotions.
Whereas women find it nearly impossible to do so.
This can be explained by the timeline of how men and women evolved differently from one another.
Men can just have sex and see it as a physical act, without really having much, if any, attachment to the woman or women.
Women, are the reverse, generally speaking, where they need much more before they would want to commit or have sex with a man.
Your acting like people in relationships don't cheat thats not saying u will but clearly rhey think u will or they are just shooting their shot
Well if im in a serious relationship its no need for me to cheat if not i would just stay single
It could be because you are a female and it's FB. You likely have a picture of yourself up I mean this isn't tough one to figure out.
But im not even showing anything
And...
Men don't care. I am married and men hit on me all the time.
I just blocked then at this point
If you’re posting attention seeking shit, that’s probably why
No that's not the case at all
Are you new to social media bc that's how a lot of it works for females, unfortunately.
No i had social media platforms for a while now
Are you posting pics of yourself in tight, revealing, or provocative clothing? If yes, all indications would point to that being the case and why they may be doing so
No i dont
If ypou keep having sex with these guys they will keep coming back for more.
Im not even having sex with these men
Don't waste your time trying to figure out why. Those men are trash. Block them.
I did and i already had a talked with my boyfriend about all of this if he feels disrespected by me telling those guys that im in a relationship and stuff and he said yes but that he doesn't tell me anything because i handle things
Because you keep responding. Not putting the blame on you because those guys should respect the fact that you are in a relationship and they are obviously so stupid that they see your response as though you're not that serious in your relationship. Just stop responding and block them if necessary.
Cause they wanna have sex and they wanna try their luck? People have to come here and make everything rocket science regardless the fact that the answer for most questions is so simple...
Because you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take and there are lots of cheaters and home wreckers in the world who only care about themselves.
To begin with... Why you flirt with other men being in a realtionship?
Block them
Make you fb private
My account is private no i don't flirt with men those men are on my friend list and i have no idea men will message me for that knowing im in a relationship with someone else
Probably because they enjoy having sex with you, more so than with other girls.
I never had sex with them before
No you didn't its ok
I don't know they do me the same way I ignore them then they want to get mad n leave
Because that's what they want, as disappointing as it is.
I'm sorry... I just re-read what I typed too quickly. I hope this didn't sound flippant -- that wasn't the intent.
I want to add on: I think there are a lot of men (and probably women too) who think that the internet is one giant dating app. And so somehow you are, in their mind, available. Not sure there's a good answer to the 'why' other than that's just them.
Because you are probably easy and a hurricane in the sack.
Why you just can't block?
You seriously need to asked this question to strangers? Are you that dumb?
No i am not that dumb just a little bit 🤣🤣😂 but i was asking because if they know im in a relationship they shouldn't be hitting me up and instead hit up women that are single
Beautiful woman is like money
Everyone wants to steal from others. 😘😘
You're cute by the way.
Cuz dudes like to be creepy. Happened to me too. Weird guys are super easy to come across, especially if you're on the internet.
This is so annoying for me girl and i don't even post naked pictures i don't even post anything about sex and they still message me
Because they’re bad people who don’t respect others
You must have one of those hypersexual auroas. Some do and some don’t.
Perhaps you a stellar reputation of both proficiency and efficiency in your skill set.
Lol they are in everyone's spam folder. Some aren't aware because they don't see beyond a woman's profile on Facebook, some know but don't care. It's not only women who can be homewreckers.
Do I really have to spell it out for you?
I assume your boyfriend was the one who hit on you
Yes if anything he was chasing me
Because they know cheating is a genetically integrated function in women. And it's always better when she's cheating WITH you than ON you.
Maybe you’re really good in bed and then know it and want to go again? I don't know.. why do you think they do this?
Some guys just like to see if they can cast the line out and get a bite in way really it’s just them trying to try their luck
SOME Men want sex from you regardless of your relationship, just like SOME women want sex from me regardless of my relationship. It is human nature.
No the question should be: Why are you entertaining messages from strange men while you're in a relationship?
You being in a relationship doesn't stop them from wanting sex.
They thirsty and shady. A real man isn't going to be a homewrecker.
Because so, so, so, many women are still DTF regardless of being in a "serious" relationship.
Statistics. You ask 100 women, 1 might say yes. You ask 10.000, you got 100 women to fuck.
If you are 1 of the remainders, who cares.
Just cause your in a realtionship doesn't mean your off limits lol
But i am off limits
Because you let them. Just block and move on.
I don't i tell them im in a serious relationship.
You did a good job girl lol
I keep telling all of those men that im in a serious
And then i block them
Yeah I get what you mean it’s kinda creepy but just see it as a compliment and continue to block lol
I will girl i had to ask my boyfriend if he feels disrespected but he hasn't let me know anything yet
you must be good in bed! get a new number will stop them!!!
So I’m assuming you hooked up with the same guys in the past, right? If that’s the case then they probably just don’t take relationships seriously.
Because many men dont respect boundaries and being told "no"
Probably cause your hot as fuck
Well like i said im not single and im not interested in men who can only offer me sex
I don't believe i am and im kind of tired of dealing with men who just want to have sex with me
Yeah this is why ignore them and block them
People want what they can't have.
Because you send signals that you are available for sex.
No not at all
Hey, if you are still available. Can I get a picture?
some girls will do it
Duh. You're on facebook. What did you expect would happen?
Probavky because these men wants to have sex with you
Stop adding to them.
They are desperate and stupid.
It's just typical Internet behavior
Nothing ventured nothing gained.
Why are you reading them is my question?
Because you shoe signs thst you a cheater
because you have a cunt
Because you allow it and you're weak
Why haven't you blocked them?
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