Because most men think with their dicks , it’s how we were made , so it’s hard
For Most guys to contain themselves , When we see a beautiful girl that catches our eyes we aren’t thinking of her relationship status we are Thinking we want her in our arms even though it is an asshole thing that most guys do when she is already in a Relationship with someone , girls do this shit as well , it’s are natural instincts when we see someone that we find beautiful and amazing we will try to win her to be in our arms with the hope she will find us attractive as well it’s a challenge so Guys that hit on other guys girls are pretty much assholes , they are only really thinking of themselves , they aren’t thinking of the guy she is with , they are thinking of themselves, It’s a selfish trait. A guy is turned on by conquering and dominating a girl , If he can win her heart and pull her away from her partner it will boost his Ego thinking he is the man that he got what he wanted , thinking she left him for me , Again it’s an asshole thing guys and girls do , when I was in relationships with girls I always had other girls trying to get with me not caring That I was in a relationship already , they just wanted
To fuck me so this shit happens all the time, because People are selfish , Why guys in relationships with girls are very Territorial over his girlfriend , he knows what other guys are thinking , just like girl’s know what other
Girls are thinking , she might take it that he is being insecure but really he is trying to get her not to disrespect him and be drawn to one of These douchebag guys that are Just trying to feed their Ego and get
Their dick wet because if they do get what they want they usually kick her to the curb after they banged her a few times , because no guy will stay committed to a girl that cheats on her partner he won’t trust her so if a girl can cheat on her Man she is trash , Girls that cheat on their partners are selfish pieces of shit as well, If she can allow another man to conquer her then she needs To be on the streets where she belongs , No guy wants a girl that cheats on him , if she can’t stay faithful to me then there is no way I will stay faithful to her , Love grows when 2 people resist temptations and remove selfishness for each other , If you can’t do that for Your partner then you don’t Deserve to be in a relationship go back to the streets where you belong. Same as a guy that can cheat on his Girl , Kick his ass to the curb you deserve better
Than that , Sadly most people
Can’t do this and that’s why so many relationships end , because they choose selfishness over
Their partner
Well, cause they see a woman they think is attractive and they think (well she could still wanna f#$k, you never know..) Unfortunately for us guys, we today especially have given in to our animalistic desire to mate with any woman we see as even somewhat attractive. It's almost become an addiction.. We have definitely become slaves to them.. As a result, many solicit sex from even women in relationships.. Especially since there are some who happily give themselves even if coupled up or married.
Because guys think about sex like every fifteen seconds or something like that. Also, those guys may not even know that you are in a relationship. Regardless, this isn't on them, its on you! Why would you leave your page open to strangers when you are in a relationship? You can limit who has access your page, or you could remove any pictures of you from the profile! I got guys in other countries soliciting sex from me when I had my picture up. Now that I have no picture, it still happens, but no where NEAR as much! If you don’t want guy’s talking sexually to you, there are so many things that you could realistically do to at least mitigate it. If you’ve not taken those steps… then yeah, it is on you. Look, should you be able to walk down the street at night naked without knowing you will likely get raped? Yes! But men are driven by their Amygdala, and studies show that in men BOTH attraction, and sexual arousal are handled by their Amygdala. So while you SHOULD be able to put “In a Relationship” on your page and never receive any inappropriate messages, realistically you and I BOTH know that’s not how it works in the real world. So why you would not take steps to mitigate it but still be surprised, that is beyond my ability to reason.
Make your page private and all your photos private too. If these men have nothing and no one to view, they won't message you. Make your page only viewable to your FB friends. The messaging will stop. Block anyone who does this. YOUR message will come through loud and clear.
There are men looking for sex and will message anyone who might have a vagina hoping to hit pay dirt. Just thirsty and sad.
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Unfortunately it’s the nature of men being the initiators. They will make their case. It’s your choice at the end to accept or reject. In my experience even girls that say they are looking for a serious relationship all end up having sex with someone as some point. It’s just they choose who. So likely girls aren’t that in need of it from strangers. There’s always a ‘friend’ that’s wants to do her lol
And there’s always someone she’s willing to say yes to. But of course there is the exceptional to the rule. Some girls really just don’t have Casual or friend sex at all but really most seem to
So I wouldn’t see it as bad. Just it’s not what you want or rather not from that guy
Your likely to be very attractive, men especially the young will try thee luck.
In addition I’ll add that there are girls who wear revealing clothes, pout, pose and either consciously or subconsciously seek approval from others which lends itself to this behaviour be it right or wrong.
It’s extremely likely that there are a number of men which have masturbated to a photo you have posed.
Because you keep responding. Not putting the blame on you because those guys should respect the fact that you are in a relationship and they are obviously so stupid that they see your response as though you're not that serious in your relationship. Just stop responding and block them if necessary.
Is it men that you are familiar with? If it's strangers then I guess they are checking out your Facebook and finding you attractive. I'm also guessing that they've tried it on others and it's worked in the past
I think its something that has just always happened from my knowledge, i can think back 20 odd years and men did it then. It is odd, its like the unsolicited dick pic, i think they think more of themselves and women will just say yes... or they going on this idea that that if the message 1000s of women one might be up for it (as not every relationship is happy)
Probably the way you present yourself. Make yourself professional/classic sexy and people have a lot more respect for you. They’ll feel you are too good for them.
Biologically, men can detach sex and emotions.
Whereas women find it nearly impossible to do so.
This can be explained by the timeline of how men and women evolved differently from one another.
Men can just have sex and see it as a physical act, without really having much, if any, attachment to the woman or women.
Women, are the reverse, generally speaking, where they need much more before they would want to commit or have sex with a man.
m Your acting like people in relationships don't cheat thats not saying u will but clearly rhey think u will or they are just shooting their shot
If you’re posting attention seeking shit, that’s probably why
It could be because you are a female and it's FB. You likely have a picture of yourself up I mean this isn't tough one to figure out.
You must have one of those hypersexual auroas. Some do and some don’t.
Perhaps you a stellar reputation of both proficiency and efficiency in your skill set.
Because you send signals that you are available for sex.
Lol they are in everyone's spam folder. Some aren't aware because they don't see beyond a woman's profile on Facebook, some know but don't care. It's not only women who can be homewreckers.
Are you new to social media bc that's how a lot of it works for females, unfortunately.
Are you posting pics of yourself in tight, revealing, or provocative clothing? If yes, all indications would point to that being the case and why they may be doing so
If ypou keep having sex with these guys they will keep coming back for more.
Don't waste your time trying to figure out why. Those men are trash. Block them.
Why you just can't block?
You seriously need to asked this question to strangers? Are you that dumb?
Cause they wanna have sex and they wanna try their luck? People have to come here and make everything rocket science regardless the fact that the answer for most questions is so simple...
They thirsty and shady. A real man isn't going to be a homewrecker.
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