My boyfriend's friends ignore me?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Ok so lately i started to spend more time with my boyfriend at bar and his friends feel visibly uncomfortable

And they act like im invisible

Some dont even look at me

Or dont say Hi or Bye to me

Its second time it happens, today too

And i start to be suspiciuos whats going on

[KrisPW]

Are any other girlfriends/wives there?

What are you reactions when they tell an off-color joke or the single guys flirt with a girl?

Is your boyfriend still interacting with them? or is he concentrating on you?

Do you engage with the other guys?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

No other women, no

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I barely talk to them
And 2 pf the guys who talked to me
Asked my boyfriend related questions:if he gonna cook me dinner and if i keep him warm since its cold (was jokingly said) asked me if i work tomorrow and where im from
(Im black)

[ZS007]

If it's that awkward why not let him go out with his friends alone and go with them only sometimes.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Its my first that i decided to see a football with Him... it just turns out some friends were there!
It wasn't boys night out
He has them every damn Saturday with
It was Us and then 3 friends of hi showed up to... casually

[Truthatanycost]

They probably just want to spend time with him alone so they can be themselves. You are most likely cramping their style.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Oh well...
Now what?

[Truthatanycost]

Hang out with your own friends, let him hang out with his. Spend time one on one. Having said that, he should have explained if that was what he wanted, and also not been ok with his friends ignoring you. Thus that's a redflag in itself...

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He said he did tbat out of respect
And that day we decided to meet to watch football together
3 of his friends just showed up and joined

[Guy13]

That could be Boyfriend orders you are living with. We have a hierarchical status in our friend groups too.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

What that even means?

[Guy13]

Don't even look at her...

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Oh wow
But why?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

They are afraid of my boyfriend he will get angry they look at me?

[Guy13]

Either that which i have done once over a girl OR they hate your ass...

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Me with my femail mentality
I see it just rude
I try to be friendly and nice
Because im new to his group
I want him to be proud of me and that they see what a good girl he has
And they dont even talk or look at me
I dont get it

[Guy13]

You may be the Slice of the Week. Pie/Cake.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

They dont know me to hate my ass
Today is first time i sat at the table with them
My boyfriend said they told him that im pretty and that he is lucky im with him
It was like a month or 2 ago
When i started to come over and they saw me near his house

[Guy13]

What's the problem then...

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

What does it mean : pie of the week?
No problem...
I just dont get why being rude to his girlfriend is a normal thing among males

[DrBanana]

Are there other couples there or are they trying to have a guys night that your partner told you about?


If yes then we guys hate that, minus that I would maybe calmly talk to your partner about it.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

No girls
I went with him to see a WC match
And some guys were there too
But he was with me
It wasn't his night with them
It was his night with me

[DrBanana]

Hmm ok, if that a the cause you might want to talk to him about in a calm way to get some possible answers.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I said that his friend was kinda rude ignoring me when i said "Bye"
My boyfriend said: he did it because of respect
... respect?

[Bklynbadboy12]

What do you mean by yours starting to be suspicious of what going on

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Why they ignore me?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Why do you think they ignore you it can only be one of 2 reasons

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

No idea
Why would i be asking it here?

[Bklynbadboy12]

They either don't like you or don't want you infringing on the time they have with him but that good for you cause now when he hangs with his friends you can hang with yours or you can have some me time