I was telling my boyfriend I am considering changing careers and going into trades as there are a lot of programs to help women get into it, he even shared a few links to help me. I then jokingly said "will you still think I'm sexy if I do it?" and he kinda got upset and told me he's not answering me anymore and to stop being so hard on myself to which I told him I'm sorry and that I was joking and he said okay. Why did he seem to get upset? I was only joking around cause you know plumbing is not a sexy job at times lol
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A lot of men have life experiences with women who say things like that, but really aren't joking.
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Are you putting yourself down for compliments and his trying to not reinforce the behaviour?
Or were you playfully acting like a butch plumber while joking around, and he didn't like the whole "acting like what you think a man is". - he might not like to think of you in a manly way at all (we like having love goggles and in no hurry to shatter them).
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Maybe getting upsets on little bit things and then taking ur love might be his plans who knows
Do u tend to joke about yourself or make other comments like that often
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