Why does it seem like I have an affect on this married guy coworker so much?

[Anonymous]

I got a little upset at him that one day so I decided to completely pay him no attention and ignore him so later towards the day he comes up to ask me something and i don’t answer and his like Noo we not doing this, so Reply back and say im done with you’re games and he was like what games… anyways I guess it bothered him so much and he tried asking my friend why I was mad at him so the next day at work he wouldn’t leave me alone he tried getting my attention by talking to me and calling my name and asking others why I am mad at him and than he came up again and was like what did I do? And either way it was hard to ignore him towards the end bc he somehow managed to tslk to me again so I’m tryin to ignore him again and he went to my friend and was like she don’t like me? And I couldn’t hear the rest bc I left why the freak does he care about me why can’t he just forget about my existence there are many other people to worry about

[Billlewis]

I think, deep down, you probably know why he's so interested in you now. Men love it when a beautiful woman they're attracted to completely ignores them, especially in an environment, like work, in which they see you every day. I think you should consider it a compliment that he's so focused on you now, and try to channel his interest into a positive element within your professional relationship with him.

[Asker]

He is married

[Asker]

And I’m not beautiful as you describe

[spartan55]

Okay, how old are you? You are seriously acting like a child. What did he do that you literally won't even talk to him?

[Asker]

It don’t matter he should respect that

[spartan55]

Respect what? Wth are you talking about?

[Asker]

By just leaving me alone and not worry I’f someone is ignoring him

[spartan55]

Why should he when you won't even tell him what he did? You are being ridiculous. Be an adult and tell him what is bothering you. This is YOUR doing, not his.

[teamvic]

Hmmm could be interested in you perhaps. Or really sees you as a friend

[Asker]

Not sure bc he sure is weird

[teamvic]

Whatever the case one thing forsure is that you definitely have his attention

[In_Trance]

It's all in your head. He goes home and rails his wife while you're sitting there thinking about him