Why does my boyfriend deny me for sex but then later says I never make the first move, but when I do he turns me down or gets irritated when I try?

[Juicyfruitt97]

We used to have sex almost every day, if not more than once a day, but now it’s like he doesn’t even wanna be bothered or he rather stay on his phone and say he’s busy.

[SueShe]

Routine, need for something new, blasé and lack of motivation.

I don't know how long you have been together but that would be the reaction of a person that has seen it all and done it all as well. Your body is no longer a novelty to him and you are probably not giving him what he secretly hopes.

Above all, there is a lack of communication as I see it. Sit together and go over this issue that seems so important to you. Prepare a list of issues you see and ask him to prepare a similar list, independent from yours.

Then you sit together and go over both lists and try to find a consensus that is acceptable to both.

Finally, if he is uninterested but watches porn, then that is a big alarm bell ringing and you should be worried. Usually, those people that do no longer fornicate while in a relation but are still interested in porn tend to want to try new things with someone else.

[Guy13]

He sounds kind of moody like a stereotypical woman about sex. He must not have much of a sex drive...

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Sorry to hear that!

[SueShe]

are they salted and/or with butter?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

@SueShe lightly salted with buckets of butter.

[SueShe]

low cal I hope...

[Avicenna]

Sounds like there may be underlying problems in the relationship

[spartan55]

Maybe it's time to spice it up?

[Katyalov]

Because you have a shitty boyfriend

[Anonymous]

I assume he was the one who asked you out