My feelings are hurt. Maybe I’m just overthinking but I don’t think so. This man I been hooking up with for 3 years ( I’ve known him for 15) had had a rough year. He lost and aunt, an uncle, his best friend and the day after Christmas his dog he had for over 10 years had to be put down. I get we’re just fuck buddies but he recently told me he loves me in a text. I don’t say it to him. He kisses me on my forehead when I leave his house. He is very sweet to me. I’m saying this so you’ll get the picture. I text him this morning and said this “I’m just thinking about you and I’m sorry you’ve endured so many loses this year. I hope next year is a way better year for you. I’m praying for you and I appreciate you in my life.❤️” I got no response at all. It’s been 12 hours. Like no thank you. I appreciate you too. Nothing. My feelings are hurt. I could say if we haven’t known each other for so long and haven’t been being intimate for so long I mean damn I would text this to a coworker so I don’t see why he would be freaked out or anything.
I always say give the guy three days. If he doesn't reply in three days it's probably over. But I'm sure he's not ending it. Maybe your heartfelt text moved him so much that he doesn't know what to say or he doesn't want to say anything to it in general. I know that may sound crazy since it sounds like you guys have a close bond and you text a lot. It's possible your message reminded him of the hard times and he doesn't want to talk about it or be reminded by it. You can try messaging him again in a few days and ask if he's ok and if you said anything that upset him. It would be really weird for him to drop off contact with you out of no where. I'm sure that won't happen. Just give him some time and space. It'll be fine! :)
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I think he may have taken it the wrong way, thinking that you want to break up with him? I'm not sure.
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