I met this guy on Tinder, and then he ghosted even though he wanted to see me again, why?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy on Tinder, and we were both honest in that we were just looking for a hook up. It was a little weird because he would treat me the way you'd treat a girlfriend. One day, we met up, everything was fine& the next he just blocked me on every platform. Don't understand why- we both seemed to be on the same page and vibed really well.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Your first mistake was using Tinder. I know that app gets a lot of hate... and there's a reason for that; it's basically a "hook up site." With that being said-

So you both made your intentions clear, had a "hook up," and then he blocked and ghosted you?

Yeah, that's Tinder. I'm not trying to be rude, I'm telling you exactly what happened anon. He got what he wanted, and moved on. He either found someone else of interest, or you read him wrong and there was no "vibe" there, just sex- which might have explained why he was treating you like a girlfriend; he wanted you to feel comfortable and at ease so you'd enjoy the sex with him more... without the commitment.

Basically stay off Tinder folks, unless you genuinely just want a hook up. Otherwise, headaches like that happen. I'd just block him back in case he reached out again for another hook up in the future.

[Anemone978]

I kind of don't get what you were expecting? You both agreed its just a hookup...
So why are you worried that he blocked you? That's what guys do once they got whatever they wanted out of you. The only time they don't block is if they aren't finished yet...

[MountAverage]

Please take no offense, but what exactly is the purpose of this question? Do you really think anyone here can tell you his reasons for ghosting you? Apparently something was not right for him. But what it was, only he knows.

[Reece12345]

Actions speak louder than words.
If this guy wanted to see you again, he would.
He isn't worth thinking about. Find a guy who actually wants to hang out with you... and does.

[DarkCarousel]

Most likely because it was a tinder date. Even if you both said you had a good time and he treated you nicely, you both were upfront about wanting a hookup. He probably wanted to just leave it at that.

[Yesdarlingmoon]

He's maybe hiding something like a lover, if not it doesn't matter cause he's obviously a coward.

[Unicorns_exist]

Yeah agreed. Blocking for no reason if the date went well - sounds very fishy

Though he might also just be a jerk blocking people who he hooks up with

[Guy13]

Maybe you reminded him of his Ex and it blew all his screws loose...

[jshm2]

Obviously you didn't vibe, and read it all wrong.

[John_Doesnt]

Because he clearly told you he just wanted a hook up.

[bamesjond0069]

You're the side piece and his girlfriend was about to find out.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

He found someone better than you.

[Anonymous]

On for hookup?