Why is it always the ugly men who have a high beauty standards?

[Reemaa]

I have seen many handsome men with averge or below average looking girls. How, i have noticed that usually ugly men have a high beauty standards, which is an irony. I don’t mean handsome men don’t care about the girl’s look. However, it’s more common for ugly men to have a high beauty standards and they even consider average-looking girls as ugly, even if she is more beautiful than him.
Personally, as above average looking girl, I don’t care about these ugly men, and i easily get handsome men who complements me. But i was just wondering about the reason, a little bit curious maybe !

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Note: i care more about the men’s personality, but now i become worried dating averge looking guys because they always seem to have a high beauty standards and treat woman more like an object. So i seem to avoid them !

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I don’t care **

[AmeerX]

I think your observation is correct 💯. This is due to more evolutionary reason. For instance, deep down good looking people like complements and they want people who value there beauty. I mean if both you and your S/O are same you meaning cancelling out effect. You are for instance 10/10 woman with a 10/10 man. The total attraction will be 1. You don't feel each other is exceptional. Though it is rare but true many handsome guys are with beautiful wives too but rare.

Now, the guy is say 6/10 and woman is 8/10 then man will be compelled to appreciate his woman more. Keeping other things constant like personality.

Now the reverse, 8/10 man with a 6/10 woman. She will really to be loving to him and he will feel like let's keep her at least she isn't going to run away or get swayed by someone with money or something like this.

Remember Gold diggers are beautiful and use there sugar and honey traps combined with physical beauty to appeal to people's lust.

Now the evolutionary aspect, since genes for beauty are always in chromosomes. They just assort independently, they will just make people randomly beautiful.

Look for example, thinking two ugly people will have certainly 100% ugly children is not true. And funny thing, I noticed most beautiful women are available in countries with high female to male population in general. Russian beauty, female population is very high Belarus is same, Czech republic same, Ukraine is same. Why? Because the genes by God's Will are assorted to make females more and more beautiful. They have more XX chromosome recombination to create the most suitable females.

[AmeerX]

Thanks for MHO ))

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

LOL... their reasoning is because they know they are ugly and don't desire someone ugly like them or to enhance their offsprings physical looks but at the sametime they will ruin the good family looks of the other person in doing so.

[Berethor]

I think that it more common among ugly women than ugly men, anyway good luck for them.

[Reemaa]

I’m not asking about which gender is more common. I was asking about the reason

[Berethor]

Hypergamy and maybe also a low self-awareness, ugly people need a reality check.

[PinkRose24]

But you're considering ugly...

[PinkRose24]

Considered

[Berethor]

Then why you keep following me everywhere, and why don't have a photo?

[PinkRose24]

I'm not following you. You answer the same questions. You're following me. Why would I have a photo?

[Berethor]

Put a photo if you think that you are not ugly, looks like you ashamed of your looks.

[PinkRose24]

Lol I was saying I think you're ugly. I don't have to be beautiful to think you're ugly. Even though I am beautiful.

[AmeerX]

Lol, I or her are not ugly people 🤣. I just like my privacy. If I or they are interested I exchange contact with them. This website is good but why ask people to show photos if they are not happy

[Anonymous]

Maybe because handsome guy don't have to worry about looks. They can get any woman they're attracted to. Ugly men probably think if the girl is ugly people will call them an ugly couple.

[kramchancel]

Well i think you just answered your question. ugly women dont like them. Average women like you dont like them. If that is the case why not go big and aim high.

[Reemaa]

Not true, I don’t care about the men’s look. I don’t mind dating averge guys. But they always seem to have a high beauty standard ans treat a woman more like an object.

[kramchancel]

Not everyone is like that. The sooner you get that thinking out of your head the sooner you will see their good qualities. I could understand why some men will act nasty if you will. Imagine not getting you want in life because of your looks. Like its not even something a make up can fix.

[Reemaa]

So it’s more like a revenge maybe?

[kramchancel]

Not even revenge. Just probably tired with life. When people treat you differently all the time, when life seems unfair because of how you look, no man can say that they won't be affected. That is why when a gal gives them attention they will give that person their all. But lets be honest pretty gal with and ugly dude? It rarely happens.

[Reemaa]

It happens since i know these type of men will do anything to get a pretty girl. He may give her tons of money, works on his personality etc. Some smart ugly men get beautiful girls

[Vikkrram]

I am an ugly man tbh wid you but i don't have high beauty standards. Coz i know i can't have beautiful girl 😅

[Anonymous]

It is usually the ones on here that have no photo at all that are the most judgmental of others.

[Reemaa]

U r talking about urself, dear anonymous?
I don’t put my photo because i live in a muslim country and i talk about many taboo things.
It’s for my safety. You are the judgmental dear anonymous!

[Rockstarrrrr]

They do it for attention... to stand out

[Yesdarlingmoon]

cause they're delusional