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1 y
I know he’s been busy with his new job and he works late but still… I’m kinda overthinking it maybe
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1 y
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I told him I was celibate for a year (Gave him a reason) and then by the end of the night he said he had fun and wants to hang out soon and I told him it’ll be fun next time but I have to be ready and he said whenever you’re ready
What Guys Said
Based on your story, it sounds like he's waiting for you to let him know when you're ready. The ball is in your court.
How do I do that? Lol
Just use words; don’t make things complicated. Tell him that you want to hangout and when you’re ready, literally tell him that you are ready.
I told him I look forward when he gets back from his trip and he said “Thanks. likewise! “ what does that mean?
Probably that he hates you and doesn’t want to see you again… give yourself a little credit. He’s telling you what he means.
Ok so he wants to see me 😂 i’m over analyzing.
Exactly right! Lol Just take a deep breath and have some faith in yourself. Best of luck 😌
If he doesn’t text me at all this weekend or tomorrow I’m just gonna assume he isn't interested in me anymore even if he’s going on this short trip.
Or you could stop making shit needlessly difficult and text him FIRST. Why the fuck would you interpret ANY of what's happened as him not being interested? Stop finding reasons for shit to be a problem.
You're right! Thank you for being straight with me. I shouldn't think that way.
No problem! Best of luck. Let me know if I can help with anything else
You did it to yourself and he left you to make the decision. When you are ready you will contact him, otherwise, he is doing his own thing. I hope he is not waiting around for you to move. I would certainly not be and chatting up women would be my number one spare time activity..
You really think he’s waiting for me to make the move? He has a trip this week anyway.
He also told me we’ll meet up when he gets back from his trip.
I told him I won’t have cramps next time either so it will be fun. so i think its obvious I want him too.
You're funny... Sound like you have things under control.
Yeah pretty much
You implied that you would probably be ready for sex the next time you saw him. But you are still not quite ready... blah blah blah (not sure what you meant) and he said "whenever you're ready". That means you contact him.
What would I say though?