Are guys more gentle than they let on?

[Anonymous]

Or sensitive, but I'd say gentle is the right word here.

What I'm talking about is they act all tough, sometimes to the point of seeming arrogant (even macho), talk sh! te and when they go on about sex topic they bolster about rough sex and the number of girls they've had, but once you're with them/date them and it's behind closed doors, they turn into these cuddly, mushy, gentlemans... it's crazy :D

My friend says most guys are naturally p*ssies like this. xD

I've had 2 boyfriends and both were like this so this is what I'm also coming from.

My ex was the sweetest on our first dates, he was kinda big as in tall and heavy but not exactly overweight (simply looked like a teddy bear) but was gentler and softer with me than I could have ever expected. Sh! te, I miss him.

Yes, they are.

No, they are not. They're tough and mean

[Anonymous]

I like a mixture of both. Guys, in general, seem tough on the exterior, but most are just soft teddy bears. I love it. Adorable.

My ex was 6'3. Looked rough but was sweet. We didn't work out and our relationship was toxic, but we weren't compatible in the first place.

However, some guys may seem sweet, but that isn't all true once you get to know them.

[summiter]

I think most are caring and gentle. Which ones do you think give a girl the better orgasms?

[Asker]

The ones who care about the girl's pleasure... I'd say.

[summiter]

Agreed... hopefully your boyfriend is one of these guys!

[UniquelyBasic]

The ones who try to prove they are tough are actually really soft.

[JPresidente]

Some guys have a tough exterior and interior and some guys have a soft exterior and interior and/or a mixture of both. Hard to generalize with a small sample size like that... no offense.

[Brando10222]

Depends on the person