So he is just my guy bestfriend but we had unprotected sex and so im facing all the pain from contraception. He insist me to not tell a single soul, so when i was in serious pain that night, i can only reach out to him. But he said he won't be coming home cause he is drinking with friends. Then i literally had mood swings side effect as well and I was crying and being vulnerable. I was emotionally disappointed and physically in pain. Then he finally went home and even cleaned my “period blood” if it was actually period. Then I told him to accompany me sleep so i can endure the pain.
He expressed how stressed he was that he had to drink with friends and also take care of me. But i don’t understand how is me being sick (and can only reach out to him) comparable to his social status of drinking with friends…
Do guys even clean a girl’s period blood?
He expressed how stressed he was that he had to drink with friends and also take care of me. But i don’t understand how is me being sick (and can only reach out to him) comparable to his social status of drinking with friends…
Do guys even clean a girl’s period blood?
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Your frustration is understandable, but the very important thing is that you said "he is just my guy bestfriend". He is trying to stay in contact with both of his friends (the other guys were likely his best friends too if he drank with them), and considering he was drinking this normally trivial thing gave him more stress about that it should.
AND because of the fact you two had unprotected sex and are sleeping together (which even best friends shouldn't really be doing as it can make you overprotective of your partner due to the hormones released) you are feeling a bit more entitled to have his attention, which is likely why you were emotionally disappointed. I don't know, I think you two might be becoming a bit more than just best friends at this point.
This was too much fucking information smh