Guys, Do guys get desperate if they're not married by 30? (Page 2)
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Not sure desperate is the right word but after 30 it gets a little bit more concerning I think for a lot of people.
I wanted to get married by 25 but yet hasn't happened, not because I can't find someone decent but because I'm financially not secure to where I feel I can provide for a family to my liking.
Understandable
I don't want marriage
Marriage is a monetary sham
I also don't want kids. I can't stand them
Who hurt you?
I am divorced and much older, I like the freedom of having sex with who I want
I'm two and a half years away and not even remotely desperate or thinking about it.
I for one do enjoy my freedom.
So no wife and kids?
Yup.
Nope. I'm 31, never married and I don't care
Nope.
What if he's ugly?
Not being married is kind of a goal for a lot of men...
Then why do I hear all these men crying about being lonely?
Most men like women. Most men like sleeping with women they find attractive. Most men like spending quality time with women they love and that love them. Most men will stay committed to and enjoy women they care about for very long periods. That said the entire institution of marriage, pageantry of marriage, absurdity of women’s fascination with jewelry because of corporate marketing, legally binding contracts that give us no benefit and create many legal and financial risks and obligations really don’t help to improve our lives. It’s sad that a lot of women can’t believe in respecting and being loyal to someone just because they love you. They think there has to be a financial exchange of jewelry (i. e. a dowry to buy the women), then a financial expenditure to declare they love each other in front of a crowd of people. Then a legally binding contract/license/tax paid to the government so that the court system will rob men of what they have worked for their entire life, and jail men if they do not pay things like child support stripping us of our God given freedom so that women are willing to commit to a good man. Slavery is never a goal of free men.
The guys that are lonely are maybe single. Maybe they are heart broken. Maybe they are sleeping with women they don't really love. Maybe the are in unfulfilling unloving relationships. That said, getting married, doesn't solve any of those relationship issues. It's like being in an abusive relationship and just getting married because she got pregnant. The problems will still be there, but you just created more problems for yourself.
So you're cheap?
Nope, I just don't date prostitutes like you.
I'm a woman. I don't date prostitutes.
Nice projection though. You're the one for sale. You're the one with a price tag on your neck. I can't be bought unlike you.
You're the delude one. I'm not a gold digger like you!
You've already admitted there is a price on your head, by calling me cheap because I would be unwilling to purchase you. You can't turn back the wheels of time. We already know what you are whore.
No stupid. You think that's how you keep a woman. You're dumb ass hell.
No, that's how you specifically are obtained, not women. Trying to use women as a shield for your individual behavior is a sad show You're the one that think men are cheap for not buying you. I specifically talked about respect, trust, loyalty, love, which are all sentiment things. Those were things that you overlooked. You focused on the money and a man that honed in on a man that would be unwilling to pay you money. That's the difference in our principles.
*and honed your focus on a man...
*yawn u seem unhinged
No, you just got caught in your own lies and proved wrong. You realized you were wrong and a money grubbing whore who made false accusations about me and you were unable to manipulate your way out of the situation. Rather than taking responsibility for your behavior and lies, you started trying to use personal attacks.
I'm a virgin you, dumbass. And I have never used anyone for money. Go back to watching p*rn, you loser!
Yet you're still for sale like a bale of toilet paper.
That doesn't make sense! Go back to your p*rn, loser!
Sure it does. You're trying to sell yourself, but no one is willing to pay for you. You're a bad saleswoman that has overpriced her product. You're a selfish, self centered narcissist that thinks too highly of herself. It's pretty simple. You must also be pretty dumb not to understand that.
You don't even know me. You're thinking of your mother!
Why would I want to know a whore like you? You've already made it clear that you value money and money alone and that respect, trust, loyalty, love, someone that cares about you is all irrelevant. You confessed that already.
I'm extremely lonely
Nope
Hell no.