I met this guy through an mbti dating app, and he invited me into his server. I met some cool people there until the guy decided to unintentionally break my boundaries that caused me to curse him out before leaving.
The friends there convinced me to come back only for the guy to ban me. So I created my own server and invited those that I‘ve befriended there. One of them is the guy’s cousin.
There‘s been a couple of situations where the cousin tried to get us to talk together again. The last one was the cousin decided for whatever reason to invite the guy in my server. The guy stayed and tried wreak havoc before he agreed to a vc with me.
What do you guys think? What’s up with this dude?
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If a guy hates you then I have totally disregarded you and written you off into the unknown. I am anything but obsessed by you. Unless your experience is more involved than expressed here then I doubt that he is obsessed with you.
The truth probably is that he intentionally knew what he was doing sharing your face. There are existing relationships there that you are not privy too. This is what she looks like..
Hmm yea that makes kinda sense thanks.
So if he unintentionally crossed one of your boundaries why would you curse him out? That's psycho b behavior there.
As far as being obsessed with you? I highly doubt it.
He posted my face in the group chat
OK great, but you understand what unintentional means, right?
It sounds like you flipped out over something he didn't even know about, so yeah I can understand why he doesn't want to be around you. And you ask "what's up with this dude?" Just zero self awareness on your part.
Obviously he did it unintentionally but still it’s my picture and the least he could do is ask my permission to do so. I demanded him then to put it down to which he laughed at until another guy friend asked him to. And after that despite me blocking him and don’t have anything to do with him, he still finds some way to interact with me in some way through his cousin or just intrude into my server. Does that not sound obsessed to you?
No, it doesn't at all. His cousin brought him to you, so that's a bad example. He's pissed at you, and I don't really blame him. Yet you think he is obsessed with you... that's funny.
I am still not getting why it was necessary to go nuclear over something like putting your picture up? Did you tell him beforehand to not put your picture up? Why didn't you just talk to him privately and explain to him why you didn't want your pic up and asked him to take it down? Why the demanding and cursing out over something so minor?
Sure