a few weeks ago I received a message from a guy I was seeing saying that he misses me. I only liked him as a friend and I didn‘t know what to reply but eventually I forgot to text him back. I feel sooo bad about it but now time has passed and I don‘t know what to do or say, should I text him and apologize or just leave it at that? I don‘t have feelings for him or miss him or anything, I just feel so bad about just ghosting him though, I know it was not very nice or good. what would you do?
I'm glad you feel bad for ghosting, but if you feel nothing for him, it's best to just leave it be. Reaching out to apologize could potentially give him hope that he got a chance, or receive a spiteful response. All you can do is be more mindful in the future.
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Texting him to appologize would be good. At the very least you won't leave pointless, unresolved tension in the air if you ever see him again.
Yes, I would text him back, and apologize for not writing sooner. If it's only been a few weeks, it's ok. If it was several months or a year then I'd say forget it. But it would benefit you both--ghosting is not fun for anyone--even for the one who ghosted.
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Just forget about it.
If you don’t have feelings for him and it’s been a while then it’s in the past and gone.Yes. Just be simple. "I'm sorry I ghosted you. That wasn't the right thing to do." Go from there.
I'd leave it alone. At this point apologizing will probably look like mocking him on top of it.
A woman once ghosted me. Then she messaged me a year later about it. So I ghosted her back. I'll remember, even a year later.
Yes. You will both sleep better.
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