Can a hookup turn into a relationship? pls help a girl out💖?

[ivydavis]

i’ve been hanging out with this guy every weekend for about 2 months. sometimes we just hangout but most of the time we end up having sex. i don’t mind it at all i love having sex w him. but i’m starting to get to know him and i think i have feelings for him. his friends say he talks about me all the time. he notices little things like when i don’t like his pic on instagram. he gets mad when i go to the club. we both don’t hookup with anyone else. he also works full time in the military and had a kid so his weeks are full but he always gives me his free time when he has it. i’m wondering if this could be something more or if i’m just being naive. opinions and advice needed! thanks💖

[MementoMori777]

Hard to say, trying to cuff someone by sleeping with them doesn't seem like a good idea tho cause why cuff you if he can clap the cheeks without commitment unless he is in love with you, it's possible but I don't know how unlikely that is considering there's millions of girls out there, he already had sex with you so if he wanted to he can decide to just replace you, I'd say less sex and more connection if you want this to work, I'm sure sex can be very enjoyable but it can ruin what you have if you let it and use it cause it can lead to getting bored of the sex and there goes that, y'all are making sex the only connection and y'all gotta get more real.

[WaterIsland]

It’s not unheard of. Tho for your own sanity and mental health, I’d recommend having that conversation sooner rather than later. And I’d also be prepared for it to not go your way. You have to decide what you want. If you are ok with only hookups with him, then that’s fine. If you want something more, and he doesn’t, you have to be prepared to end things and not hookup with him anymore.

[SnowedIn]

Be honest with him. See if he's open to what you have becoming something more.

[spartan55]

Why would he want a relationship when you gave it up for nothing?

[AviatorTom]

Anything is possible, but a sex-only relationship rarely turns into something else.

[Anonymous]

Much like a guy can fall in love with a stripper and it's technically possible a relationship can form out of that. But it's not very good odds it's going to be a very long or healthy relationship. But... yeah, it's technically possible.