Why is he acting cold and ignoring me after drunk texting?

[Anonymous]

He sent me a voice message while drunk to tell me how much he likes me and doesn’t want me to be mad at him. He barely drinks and it’s a good gentleman. Now he’s taking a very long time to reply even if he’s online.

we used to talk everyday until I got mad because he’s hot and cold. He told me one time (sober) that he likes me. We’ve been talking for 3/4 months. I really like him but he’s cold.

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He was not like that before. Now he’s acting much colder. Before it was like he’s trying to act cool but mls I feel like he’s embarrassed

[Guy13]

He is embarrassed and it sounds like a face-face is required to put this in the past. Sounds like he is going to ghost unless this is addressed in a direct manner.

[Anonymous]

You said he’s hot and cold in general, so why is his coldness so confusing? 3-4 months is not a long time, so to already be playing these games, it would be silly for you to keep dealing with that.

[Opinion Owner]

Have you tried asking him what his intentions for talking to you are? I feel like when guys are different in the beginning, that’s then putting on the face they know will attract you, then eventually you see who they really are. So if he’s cold now then that’s just him, it either works for what you want in a guy or it doesn’t.

[Mayo503]

Maybe he can’t remember what he did…

[Wise4myage]

Maybe he regrets saying what he said?