Guys who stare and wait for the girl approach are only looking for an easy hookup, friends with benefits or attention. Agree or disagree? (Page 2)
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Throughout their day, men will see dozens of women they find attractive. Thus when you see one staring, you could be the 20th one he's found attractive...
Yes. I am talking about repeat staring from the same person over and over.
The man whose behaviour suggests interest and attraction but doesn't do anything really about it.
People say this is shyness but from what I keep experiencing, they have this half-hearted manner because they aren't really interested but will take attention and sex then fade the woman after.
I am askkng it because girls get duped into "brining him out of his shell" and they are setting themselves up for so much heartbreak thinking the guy is "shy".
It probably varies in each situation and the individual will have to use her intuition to figure it out. I saw this new girl at work that was very attractive and I kept looking at her, but I still prefer being single and had no intention of making a move. But after noticing me she said 'I can see you looking at me you know'. It transpired that the same girl had been duped by another man who pretended to be interested in a relationship and after they slept together he wasn't interested.
But when I rejected her invites to her place, she still became angry. But some guys may be shy, some may be lazy, and some may be desperate. Thus I'd say it is discernment that is the missing key.
Bravo! Yiu were not interested.
Her reaction was immature because you were upfront.
Inwould have never even approached you like she did because I would get you were jist staring
You get the point I am trying to make. I am only trying to highlight for women that if a guy is shy, leave him be. A man who wants you WILL do it. And if he really really really can't mister up the courage something's off.
I have been called a red-pill rage woman or something on here.
NOTHING could be further from the truth! Men and women are meant for each other and I get on fantastic with men.
Women just need the leave the mixed-signal Mikes alone!
Thanks for answering!
You said 'A man who wants you WILL do it. And if he really really really can't mister up the courage something's off.'
That's true to some extent but don't forget. Over the years all kinds of nonsense has been pushed that meddle with the natural state of affairs between men and women in the workplace or in general. In some areas where I live, they have small teams of the Police force that deal with street harassment. But this means that not only the guilty can be prosecuted, it also means that if a man approached a woman and she decided it was harassment, he could be landed in jail.
Most men and women will take whatever is on offer when it’s convenient for them so long as it fits standards in the looks department and they are in the right mood.
Or are painfully shy or socially awkward and do not have the courage to approach.
Ok. Also problematic but another discussion. Thanks for answering!
Disagree. Some guys are just shy or don't know what to say.
Ok, they act shy when they have bad intentions.
I don't think so.
staring... at people, is weird
Everyone stares at some point or another.
for how long do you stare at people?
Depends. I have one way windows so I do stare and observe people a lot. On the street, not long.
I can't stare to catch a guysbinterest because mennalways take this as an invitation to sex instantly.
Keep thinking that.
I didn't but after getting burned repeatedly it seems like the right conclusion.
That's cool. You may keep picking the wrong guys but at least you won't be wasting good guys time. 🙂
No, I won't have my time wasted by insecure men who lack confidence. 🫡
Like I said "keep thinking that". Clearly it's working. 😆😆😆
Disagree
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