I met a guy at the gym. I thought he likes me so I wrote a confession letter. He said, "That's nice!" I got his number and we communicated on the phone but he didn't initiate contact first and ask me out so I thought he wasn't interested in me. So I stopped talking to him. But we both feel uncomfortable at the gym so I texted him again like I am sorry to make you uncomfortable but that's just I still like you. He replied, you don't have to be sorry, I just thought you didn't want to talk to me so I didn't want to bother you. So he replied but didn't say he likes me as well. So, should I stop contactin him? Why did he answer me but not giving the answer?
I would not worry much if he said it back or not
Have you ever had a coffee with him at least? Did you guys eat lunch together? Dinner? Did you I hang out with him before? Have conversations together etc etc
See how often he meet with you? If he meets you every week thats a good sign.
But if he never asked to hang out have lunch etc that’s not good at all.
So yeah I would see how much you see- meet him. See his ACTIONS rather than why he didn’t say it back …
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That's nice... that was his response. Ouch. That isn't what a guy says when he likes you. If you give a man an in of anykind and he is into you he will move mountains to reciprocate.
Are you seriously 36? Texting a guy that you like him? ... 🙄 Ugh...
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This is why I don’t shT where I eat.
This is why you don’t date coworkers or bosses or people at the gym. Because now you made it uncomfortable 🤦🏻♀️
Why is a woman your age wasting your time with texting?
Jesus... Are you sure your age is accurate?
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