A guy friend that I've known for months suddenly ghosted me after we texted for hours late at night. He viewed my story on Instagram after I posted of being lonely. He told me I seemed depressed which I denied. Then the next day he changed, he stopped replying to my messages but he is always the first one to view my story. There's no doubt that this guy had interest in me cause of his actions and words. Did I do something wrong? What do you think the problem is here?
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If we stop texting then step back then a Bestie should sit, review, get a grip on anger/emotion and look for trend. In that review, hunches to Why? will likely present itself.
Proactive positive but real lead to heightened interest and date verse reactive and hater attitude interpretation. There had to be something in those messages in their context that was misunderstood and was too much. Lots of times with texting tone and sarcasm does not communicate. I hate texting. Talking on the phone would have served you much better on the tough questions.
And if it get laborious and becomes something we have to do when it is supposed to be light and fun then we need distance which means no texts.-It does not mean that we won't pop up out the blue one day. Often, we are trying to get a vibe that assures us a date would be a sure yes... if that is not happening then again the whole process becomes Work.
How intimate were the messages? I don't mean sexual. Like was it just playful chatting or were you having deep conversations? Pouring out your soul, that kind of thing
Its a mixed of both
He asked me deep questions like why am i lonely? who hurts me? Stuff like that but I didn't reply directly and he said im too complex
Hmm... it sounds to me like he might be having a hard time relating to you. Men want to help women, contrary to popular belief, but we do so in a very practical way by providing solutions.
If a guy feels like the girl just won't allow him to help her and is being "too complex", he might just give up and decide you're not worth his time.
Either "shit or get off the pot" kind of thing. Have fun with me, take my advice, or leave me alone.
Some men just can't handle that level of emotional depth
I'm not saying that's what's going on for sure, but it's a possibility
He probably just lost interest for some reason.