I sent a guy a selfie and all he responded with was “That’s you? 👀”. Is it safe to say he’s not attracted to me?” (Read more details)?

[Nonchalantmouse]

I sent a selfie to this guy I’ve been talking to for a few weeks and all he responded with was “That’s you 👀”. On top of that, he hearted my picture (via iMessage) and proceeded to UNDO the reaction hours later. We’ve been texting back and forth since I sent the picture and he still hasn’t mentioned anything about it. Is it safe to say he’s not attracted to me?

[SteveSmith1985]

Not necessarily. I won't lie. I just yelled "what the fuck?" out loud. In reaction to this. But no. Don't worry.

I see where you're coming from. Totally. I mean. That's... yea...

But listen. I've got a theory. But first let me say that you need to judge based on the post-picture conversation. If everything seems good. Then it is. If it seems off, it might be. But... the problem is... YOU are inevitably going to seem "off". Because of this stupidness.

So, my theory is fairly simple. See if it fits your situation.

So he is attracted to you (which is why the conversation has gone on for so long since he saw your pic).

But guys are often idiots. He... put the heart because he IS attracted to you. But then immidiately thought "no wait, that's too much... gotta play it cool... can't make her think I like her too much" so undid the heart.

But you can SEE all of that. Which makes me want to face-palm. C'mon man!

So he's just a dummy. But I think he likes you. 🙂

[FilmGuy93]

What? No. It's safe to say that he IS attracted to you. Why do you think he added the looking emoji?

[jennifer_bloom]

He might not like you or he might pretend not to like you to boost his market value or make you easier to date. Whether it’s real disinterest or fake disinterest, I would cut him off for being rude.

[collie22]

Ether way , he likes you and he's confused or doesn't know how to respond. No worries he likes you hang in there if you still like him. Thats my take 😊

[serious]

No, I don't think you should assume he does not like you.

[mark000h]

It could be either way, but probably he was pleasantly surprised.

[In_Trance]

you've been talking to him for a few weeks and you didn't know what each other looked like?

[Anonymous]

The annoying "that's you" comment. I hate that.

[spartan55]

No, that's not safe to say at all.

[es20490446e]

In text you never know.

[msc545]

It is safe to say he IS attracted to you.