A guy I used to be friend with kind of lashed of on me after I was doing my stuff 9 days after he sent me how his internship was going. To be honest, he was kinda getting on my nerves, sending me 4 text per day but he was still nice at the time. I changed number at the time and forget to tell him.
He used to always ask me how I was doing and about everything interesting he could think I would find interesting. He did know me pretty well.
I genuinely had no idea what was going on with him at the moment but he claimed that even tough he always show cares and support for me, he felt like I don't care and was being weird saying that I can full well see the messages he sends me and to stop pretending. But that he still sees me as a friend. Asking me stuff like if our dates was bothering me and if he did something that made me pissed off. According to him, I was never willing to put in effort into our friendship. I hadn't talk to him in like 2 weeks and he actually didn't ask me anything prior to saying this.
It was the first time ever he acted like this and it scared me as before he didn't seem to care whether or not I wasn't paying attention to what he was saying over text messages and didn't use to be this harsh.
He called me during his birthday but I was kind of scared so never answered. I noticed over text message that he was telling me how sad and conflicted he felt about talking to me that way and that he wasn't in the right place mentally at the time but it weirded me out even more.
I cut off the guy but what made him become so suspicious and distrustful of me? It was a like a switch activated in his brain. I remember that he used to be super nice before I didn't respond to what he said during the 9 day gap.
