How do I discourage this guy?

Anonymous

(30-35)

There’s this guy who my therapist helped me to understand is trying to bully me into a relationship, by negging me, making nasty comments about my long distance relationships and just hanging around online and in person. I’ve tried being polite but firm, I’ve tried being brutally honest, I’ve tried being kind, I’ve tried ignoring him and I’ve tried grey rocking him. Nothing works. He says he’s not single but I think he just said that to make me jealous, as he’s always trying to contact me. What’s it going to take to stop him? Any ideas?

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Guy13 Follow
Master Age: 30 , mho 55%

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Get away from me will do it.

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  What, say that to him? Basically tried that. Aside from being really awful, there’s nothing I haven’t tried.
  
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- Guy13
  
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  Tell him point blank to leave you alone. If he does not then tell him you will go to police for harassment.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Ok thanks. 😊👍
  
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spartan55 Follow
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I don't think this is real at all. Just report the to his supervisor. If he works for himself contact your state's licensing board, I'm sure they would love to hear your story.

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- Asker
  
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  Actually it’s true. What makes you doubt that stalkers exist? Anyway, I’m not in the mood to be trolled by some smug jerk that’s never faced any real hardships in his life.
  
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- Asker
  
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  and there are things I could tell you to convince you but I’m not going to as it’s not your business.
  
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- spartan55
  
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  Where did I say stalkers don't exist? Troll, smug jerk... nice. I gave you a realistic solution and you just ignored it. Let me guess, my solution isn't possible? Wouldn't work? Riiiiight...
  
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- Asker
  
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  Hasn’t worked, asshole.
  
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- spartan55
  
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  What hasn't worked?
  
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- Asker
  
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  Going to the police or reporting him.
  
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- spartan55
  
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  You haven't spoken to any authorities about it... gimme a break.
  
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- spartan55
  
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  Who did you report him to?
  
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- Asker
  
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  Of course I have. You moron.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Look, I’m so sick of your smart arsed semi abusive answers. I’m going to block you.
  
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- spartan55
  
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  No you haven't. Funny you didn't say that in your op...
  
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- spartan55
  
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  Whatever pink anon. Take out a hit on him then. That'll solve your problem.
  
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Anonymous
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Nothing will make him stop

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