Story I I have very very little memory I believe he spiked me I met him at a club whilst I was drinking apparently according to my friend we spoke for 2 mins then both disappeared I and woke up to him inside me claiming he already did it 3 times I was scared. just don’t understand why after violating me he wouldn’t let me leave instead he insisted on cuddling me calling me baby telling me it’s all gonna be okay and I was crying and wanted to go
While it may be true that he did sexually assault you it could also be true that you were both drunk. This could lead to both of you consenting when drunk, meaning both of you weren’t thinking straight and ended up having sex. Also since you said you were at a club you most likely drank a lot of beer which could lead to Alcohol induced blackouts. These blackouts could lead you to think that you were spiked but in reality you just drank a lot of alcohol. Remember people do stupid things while drunk. (As you mentioned in other comments that you were to late to test if you were spiked this could forever remain a mystery) Now I’m not going to say it’s all your fault or that it’s all his fault. I’m just saying that people need to be more responsible when drinking and its always smart to have a person coming with the group who is not drinking to watch over the group. But what do I know I’m not even at the legal age to drink. Also it’s my opinion others may disagree with me which is fine but don’t attack me because I’m looking at this from a different viewpoint.
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Well maybe you did say yes while you 2 were drunk and he honestly was shocked you had no memory of it and obviously dosent want to be called a rapist for what he thought you consented to.
Shit gets kind of confusing when you are blackout drunk dosent it?
Maybe he did take advantage of you, or maybe you just had no control of the situation cause you drank to much.
A lot of what you typed just sounds like dodging responsibility and playing the victim card, take control of your live, don't drink as much and pay attention to what drinks you have, unless your drink was unattended how could he have put something in it without you knowing?
It's a cruel world with bad people, but you can't just blame them when you give them opertunities, I should be able to leave my life savings in a bucket on my porch without anyone taking it but we don't do that cause we know damn well someone would see thousands of dollars and take it.
I do very sincerely hope that you have made a clear and thorough Rape report.
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If you feel like you submitted to him and he went too far, block him and never think about him again. If you think that he raped you, call the police. …but whether he stroked your hair and said soothing things should not play into it, I think.
Thats rape, I hope you called the police and got to hospital ASAP to get DNA swabs and blood tests to check for drugs etc.
I’m so sorry that this happened to you. He was probably trying to manipulate you into feeling bad for him/thinking he was nice
You were raped. You should not feel guilty whatsoever for reporting him. You did the right thing. I am deeply sorry that happened to you.
Because for some reason there are sickos that think they did nothing wrong and u truly wanted it 🤮
He raped you. You did the right thing. So sorry
so you got in bed drunk with a drunk guy and had sex and now he is guilty of something? Good luck with that
Well, he was cuddling you and telling you it will all be okay because you were clearly upset. As for why he raped you, I don't know.
Ya, that's rape and he is a manipulator. You can call the police. You should not let him get away with it. The Q is is that what you want to do?
You could report him, but do you really want this drama and trouble?
He did that because he raped you anytime a guy has sex with you without your consent is rape
Fk8n attention seeker and a Ho!
Would you stop telling us about your pathetic stories everyday.
GET A LIFE! A REAL ONE!To make you feel bad for him
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