Did this guy actually like me? because he never complimented my looks called me awesome but never said anything else he acted better towards me?

[laurlaur101]

a guy that stopped talking to me I had another girl add him on snap to see how he would act with her and he gave her a compliment and they talked for a little bit but than he never continued the conversation he stopped with her didn’t talk that long to her but he talked longer to me when he first met me so my question is..

[quaranta]

I think you're doing wrong moves here, you start already by stalking and doing weird games behind him, which is just bad and undermines already the building of mutual trust in a possible relationship. Don't start like that, rather, if you want more clarity and to "test" him, do it directly, asking him where he is seeing this thing with you going, or if he has plans and what he is looking for, or ask him out directly by yourself for a simple coffee and a walk, so that at least you get to know each other better and discover if you like each other or not. Maybe it's just too early to tell for him, for now, and he wouldn't have a definitive answer.
If he ghosts your request for clarity then definitely he is not interested and he is not relationship material either because ghosting a request for clarity after giving positive signals would be really disrespectful and you want a man who takes minimal responsibilities I guess. Which is unfortunately what most people do on dating apps (maybe you too) but that can be really abusive to some individuals.
On the other side nothing stops him from flirting with another girl now since you're not committed into any exclusive relationship with him, and I believe those sudden silences from people that come from dating apps are most often caused by another "better candidate" entering the scene... Still wouldn't justify ghosting a request for clarification, so I think you should ask him about that.
But regardless, the fact he stopped talking is not a good sign in any way, I would assume he is not interested enough to pursue you for something more serious, maybe he just enjoyed the company and the random flirting but that was it.

[laurlaur101]

I don’t think any guy would like me in a serious way bc there's always someone else better than me I try my best to be a good person I don't know I guess not enough. I wasn’t trying to be devious in this situation the reason why I had another girl I know add him on snap and try to talk to him to see what he would do to her I basically wanted to see if he was going to ghost her too. I just wanted to know if he was a player and does this stuff to a lot of girls bc a girl that knew him told me about this guy that he flirts with a lot of girls so I didn’t know if he used to be like that or changed so I wanted to see if I was getting led on or not. I don't know why he ghosted me maybe he just wanted to get in my pants the guys I start to like never like me back so I’m just questioning myself and that maybe I’m just a waste

[laurlaur101]

I’m also not good with putting my feelings out there I just get scared to tell them how I really feel I don’t want to look like a fool if rejected so I just keep quiet about if I have an interest

[Guy13]

Yes but he wasn’t getting the vibe that made him move forward. Maybe next time

[laurlaur101]

So you’re saying he could’ve? He ghosted me so I don't know what happened